I think my ideal living situation is some queer commune where we have a big ass garden. I just wanna grow vegetables and flowers and love people.
I don't romanticize the idea of living off the land or self sufficiency. They're cool ideas but I don't think it's currently doable for me (and there's some issues with lifestylism like that)... I just think I would find anything like that so much easier than having a job in our current society.
masto optimism
There are a lot of great people out there, whether I follow y'all or not.
Even with all our struggles and how stressful it can be, I'm still super glad I've stuck around.
I feel like I have a real space to be myself both privately and publicly and it's amazing how the balance between those is never just "more private" like it was on twitter for me.
Let's keep working hard to build this space out and work with each other to sort out our issues as best we can :thumbsup_hmn_g1:
Sad venting, anxiety
I worry that in a few years all the people I'm locally friends with now will have settled down far away from me and we might see each other rarely if we do at all. I worry that we'll drift apart as responsibilities get in the way of friendship. I worry that I won't be able to make friends like this again, because this is the first time I've ever felt this comfortable around friends. I worry I'll be lonely again in the future like I've been in the past.
I need to work on removing ableist language from my vocabulary.
Yeah it's hard to totally remove that sort of stuff after having grown up with it being common for years, but I know better and I have done much much harder things in my life.
Being a better ally and friend, and making people feel more comfortable is easily worth that small difficulty in changing my behavior.
Joking mentions of blood
My gender is like some eldritch horror. If you stare into the abyssal depths of my gender your eyes, ears and nose will start to bleed as you begin to comprehend the terrifying might of it.
Hmm, anyone in the Greater LA area who has a leftover PC for gaming/streaming/editing that they could gift to someone in need of a replacement PC?
They are need this PC to be able to get work done and not slip into complete disarray, and their current setup is on it's last dying breath/died today.
Boosts are welcome.
@korosarum which to those unaware since I couldn't find this info online: use the email you registered with to message membership@dsausa.org
Queer, Communalist, Agender Femme (It/They/She), Autistic, Postfurry, Plural, Otherkin