GRS flaming take
@starkatt TBH I had my surgery 12 years ago with an older surgeon (Kunaporn) and not much tissue to start with, and my home situation post-surgery meant I didn't get to do proper self-care -- one dilation every other day because work schedule -- so I have almost no depth and I get kind of upset when people focus on "whether you can take a penis" as the mark of a successful SRS.