gender noodling
Things I have figured out:
1) I am definitely not male
2) I'm totes nonbinary.
3) I wouldn't call myself a woman, but transgirl and trans-femme both work pretty well.
4) She/her is pretty great, they is also pretty great
5) I'd rather have an X on my birth certificate and driver's license than an M or F.
6) But in a pinch, F wouldn't be bad except for the whole "still presenting male" thing
7) I do kind of want to change my name
8) I really don't want to come out at work right now
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@Soreth If you can document on-call responsibilities and navigate Windows and Linux, we may still be hiring escalation engineers.
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@Soreth ... understandable.
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@literorrery Wherever I go next, on-call is not something I'm aiming for. And I'm afraid that I don't quite trust your employer's health insurance right now. n..n;