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Do any of you know good alternatives to "slave"? I dislike the word because of its colonial context. But I imagine a middle-aged man with grey hair and a tuxedo when I think "servant". I'd prefer a word that works well for an obedient naked queer boy with cuffs.
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@natanji Submissive, often shortened to Sub? Though I guess that doesn't have quite the connotations of ownership etc...
How about nouning obedient? My "Obedient" or "Obedient One"?
You could go for a less loaded term like "Houseboy" or "Minion".
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@natanji House boy might work.