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As part of the overall “things are more nuanced,” today I’ve realized that correcting me *does* anger me at some basic “well this is upsetting” level below all the abuse associations. Sort of like how there’s always a little spark of anger when someone shoves you on the bus. I feel like accepting this makes it easier to move to “yeah but this doesn’t necessarily mean anything,” if that makes sense.
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@Leucrotta 100% makes sense. It's near impossible to negotiate with responses and emotions without acknowledging their existence first.
