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The gender saga continues... 

@KawaSeadrake So apparently a drug called raloxifene can be taken with estrogen to reduce body changing effects? I don't know a ton about it but that might be a useful starting point?

@vahnj It became acceptable -- or at least typical -- when there was no moderation mechanism to stop asshats/BrandsTM from doing it :/

Unfettered global keyword searches are the number one reason I don't post publicly on bird site.

Of all Twitter's features, "strangers and brands find my posts constantly because I said a word they like" is my least favorite by FAR

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I'm really, really glad that low-key seasonal rituals/offerings are a part of my life now. That do a whole lot to help me feel connected and grounded.

Marking time is important. Recognizing the changing of the seasons, the land, and the value of fellowship are important.

@vahnj i still roll with the NPR Sandwich Monday definition: "a sandwich is defined as protein between carbohydrates". It's broad.

I've also been known to ask "am I supposed to know that?" in response to certain kinds of personal information being shared.

I'm not perfect at infosec myself, certainly, but trying is important.

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Whenever someone I know starts telling a story that involves sharing someone else's personal information​ -- medical, emotional, relationship, whatever -- I make a mental note to try not to share any of my personal stuff with them.

Trustworthiness​ is modeled.

Negativity, marxism, work 

the most courage I've shown was when I said I'd walk rather than work the amount of overtime he wanted. So now I'm "only" doing 9h every day, as compromise. Whenever I talk politically about the eight hour work day I feel hypocritical and craven.

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Negativity, marxism, work 

I can probably ask for a lot more time off than I am tbh but my boss embodies the management "strategy" of being intimidating (to me at least; gender and culture are things here), capricious, and not clearly delineating how much is actually allowed.

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Negativity, marxism, work 

I'm put on a red bandana today in what was meant to be at least a tiny gesture of solidarity but I don't think anyone here even recognizes it.

People around me get to say "hey I'm taking Monday off" and it's not even a thing but for me it feels like it costs worplace capital that I have to guard jealously.

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Negativity 

Feels like the only reason I'm not in the streets today is because I'm selfish and not actually willing to bear costs in the name of change :/

@Eve@witches.town but @starryblush@witches.town says they're also really good.

@Eve@witches.town two more. I haven't actually had time to read them yet and they don't have an audiobook version :/

Guns 

It frightens me how normalized their existence and use is. That we've just gotten used to the idea that a tool to kill someone at a distance with minimal planning and effort is a reasonable thing to be carrying around anywhere outside of a war zone.

...or, I guess, people who carry *do* think of the world as a war zone. :shudders:

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