on being a snowflake (xpost mefi) (2/2)
Do I need to grow a thicker skin than the one I got by spending my twenties in submarines and oil refineries, or does it make sense that hearing "No, you're wrong, you're a man and you'll always be a man" from yet another authority figure, on a day when my brain is screaming the same thing especially loudly, might temporarily wreck my ability to focus on anything other than staying alive?
There's a shitload of cool stuff on LiveHeroes but it's expensive enough that waiting for a sale is a v. good idea.
I also know there's a website that sells awesome printed leggings but can't remember what it was called? @memnus@octodon.social ?
"When I finally got tired of arguing with [my writing teacher] and decided to write a novel as if I was some kind of formulaic, genre writing drone, just to prove to her how awful it would be, I wrote the first book of the Dresden Files." -- Jim Butcher
Well that sure does explain some shit. The series sarts getting good around book 5-6 as it begins developing beyond the formula.
@Oneironott hey btw your name is really beautiful.
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katt's pain scale
I'm really curious to see how this compares to other people's scales?
Also though it's fundamentally unquantifiable :<
Fuckin' qualia.
Also I feel like I can never actually *remember* the sensation of pain in a sensory way? I can think about the idea of it, but not the sensation itself.
GRS, Katt's pain scale
So like... when a nurse would ask how much pain I was in and I'd answer 5, that meant "the current pain management is really not sufficient and I'm distressed." Which I would then actually tell them rather than hoping the number would be sufficient
I don't know if that's how most people would use 5? They seemed to think I was underrating my pain. But like, it always felt like it could be a *lot* worse so I didn't want to claim something higher.
Katt's personal pain scale
The step from 3 to 4 is when the pain becomes impossible to ignore
4 to 5 is when addressing the pain becomes important
5 to 6 is when it becomes urgent
6 to 7 is when I start to feel I might need serious medical attention
...beyond that I don't really have mapped.
Katt's personal pain scale, short form
Each number there is a *significant* increase. And uhh I hope that's enough room at the top end? I don't have much experience with the top end tbh.
what if northern pygmy owlbear
a small magical beast that never gets bigger than you and is incredibly docile, if not hungry all the time https://awoo.space/media/cL5bLoxe1FAjcSHuYMk
Moving to @starkatt
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