hormy on maim
@kaputotter x3
Sex/Gender stuff
@Motodrachen There's always hope, but sometimes that's really all you can do. It's sad, but hopefully he will eventually be able to pull himself back and begin his own recovery.
Sex/Gender stuff
@Motodrachen Sometimes there's not much one can do. If someone is hurt it's natural to default to being defensive, in that situation they need to first have the realisation and then the will to change.
It's not your responsibility to fix them, but it's damn hard if you care for someone not to, I know that well.
Sex/Gender stuff
@Motodrachen Aye, it's a tricky predicament. In situations like that it's hard to imagine it working out, if one party is insistant on doing things that the other is obviously uncomfortable with, but I guess that's relationships, they just don't work without mutual respect.
Sex/Gender stuff
@Motodrachen
How your partner identifies does not define you, but are, it can cause a lot of friction if one is particularly vocal about a place where things clash. I hope that you'll be able to recover and find yourself properly again.
hormy on maim
@kaputotter
Careful, every seven years that boy won't be able to stop himself from feeling up your face, you'll go nut.
@matoakit
If only. ❤
Sexuality
@Talija
I know the pain, just from the other side. My ex was more disconnected, I wasn't and it caused us both a lot of grief. Things sorta worked out in the end, but that was more luck than anything and I can't say the result was the best either.
@EmoneyBromine
Butts...
Failing that, count to 1024 on your fingers via binary... or that might just be me doing that ^-^;; airports are not the most entertaining of locations...
@Motodrachen I think a lot of it comes from a focus on community rather than forced engagement... it's pleasant here.
Sexuality
@Talija Some people experience less of an emotional connection when it comes to the physical and that's okay, the only thing is really to be honest about it.
You can love one person and have sex with someone else too, just as long as you're honest with your partner(s) and you both(all) are okay with it then you shouldn't feel guilt just because you feel affection differently than the pressumed majority.
@XerTheSquirrel You look good ❤️ I hesitate to say pretty or cute, but honestly both. :)
mh, hosting guests, etiquette (-?)
@Draekos No, it's definitely not just you. I had a friend once call me and ask if I'd give a cup of coffee in an hour and I felt like I was about to go into a panic attack, ended up saying no and sorry.
I do feel bad for that still, but in reality, I just don't function without some sort of plan, schedule or defined expectation and to my knowledge I do not have a medical reason as to explain why that is either. So no, you're definitely not alone.
(+) Fetish / Kink / Piercing
So a while ago I went & got myself a tongue piercing... because I really like the look...!
Well... I told one whom I had a thing for about it & they kinda took it a step further... they suggested I exchange the stud for a big weighty ring... ^-^;;
Now I don't want a big hole in my tongue please... but I must admit that idea really did strike a cord... to have one's speech restricted & slurred by one's Master or Mistress... not to mention *other* potential uses...
Furry artist & former engineer. Nature, animal & pink lover. Youtuber & occasional streamer. Good hearted & dirty minded omega bitch. SFW'ness not guaranteed.