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Saw The Adventures of Priscilla, Queen of the Desert last night. It was real good! Haven't put much critical thought into it yet but it was definitely headlined by cis/straight folks playing gay men and a trans woman, unfortunately.
They still did what feels like a pretty good job - it felt like a really good highlight to the kind of struggle and life lgbt folks have, particularly back in the early 90s when it was made.
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The only thing I could think when the main characters used f***** and t***** was "ok are the actors actually gay / trans"
I also dunno how accepted the second one was back then as any kind of accepted word use goes but the first ones definitely was off the table as a hate word already, but I know it was basically a socially acceptable hate word then. I bet the other word was the same 😣
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@vahnj The film's Australian, so different cultural context. Also, I can't speak for anyone else, but "t4y" was my self-word back when I was a sheltered 20-something in 2000 transitioning with no real community and no awareness of the pornography context. It sounded cute and diminutive at a time when I felt like I was neither, "transsexual" was too medical, and "transgender" didn't sound right because it was my body that needed fixing, not my social role.
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@literorrery wow, this is great context, thanks!
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@vahnj These days, I have an an awkward relationship with it. I' very aware of the broader cultural context, and I don't want to punch sideways or down, but I can't deny that I used... and use... it positively for myself. I just don't really have the energy for a fight with random people to try to "reclaim" it. =x.x=
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@literorrery i definitely don't think there's anything wrong with reclaiming the word for yourself- but it's definitely important who you say it around bc for some people it's pretty important to not hear it at all
i think when it's just me and my boyfriend, we often refer to ourselves as fags and stuff, so i know how this goes a bit lol
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@vahnj @literorrery When I go to get my bloodwork done for checking on my HRT, I like to call it "getting my tranny fluids checked" because I think that's hilarious. :D
...But yeah, using it for others is no bueno.
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Anyway it was nice to see a movie where the main characters don't actually sex each other up and focus only on who they fuck or get in a bullshit love triangle or die of the fucked up shit that happens to our community like too many other movies I've seen so... I liked it