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@FragileVal yes. I reminded them every damned day for 4 years. Non stop. Argued ever misgender. Every deadname. It was terrible and exhausting. But they tired out before I did in he end.
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@FragileVal I don't think it's your fault, but if you think they don't mean it maliciously, its def worth having a sit down to re-establish the situation and making it clear what it means to respect you for you <3
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@Fuego I feel a little guilty because I ended up letting it slide pretty much every time, especially since I meant for myself to remain closeted to the community at large. But I guess it's better late than never to get after them for their backsliding. And, it isn't my fault that they backslid in the first place! They're culpable.