Name update:
After some thought, I do prefer the names Sparrow and Danika over Tobi.
Danika works well for formal situations, family, and friends who have known me a long time.
Sparrow is good for casual and/or queer events, online, and as a friendly nickname.
I do strongly prefer they/them pronouns over "she". And I will gently correct folks about this.
Ppl can read gender into my name however they like, but it's my name, my gender, and I know who I am and how I identify.
@ThatDamnCat <3
@Sparrow fwiw I *really* like the name Sparrow.
@Sparrow
I think this is very cool!