GRS flaming take 

Thought: the historical focus on vag depth-measuring as a key metric of "success" without mentioning much about quality of sensation is a manifestation of patriarchal views about sex.

GRS flaming take 

@starkatt TBH I had my surgery 12 years ago with an older surgeon (Kunaporn) and not much tissue to start with, and my home situation post-surgery meant I didn't get to do proper self-care -- one dilation every other day because work schedule -- so I have almost no depth and I get kind of upset when people focus on "whether you can take a penis" as the mark of a successful SRS.

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