To all #autistic people out there:
When you were diagnosed autistic or whatever, did you actually ever get access to any available resources detailing your condition and maybe figuring out how everything might work on your end?
I never learned how to handle emotions and the lack of a sense of "belonging" and that's fucked me up to this day.
@AliceGrimaude *takes a big sip of Pepsi, smiling and staring into the camera*
Stream over! Thanks to @korpspropaganda@twitter.com for being a delightful streaming buddy, and to everyone who showed up! <3 Sketches are for @ReadingRidley (feat. @phenokage 's character Amanda), @ComputerHusband , @websterleone and @_ahty@twitter.com ! #nsfw
So Valerie is considering fae/faer pronouns, and I am suddenly very aware of the fact that I am the (ostensibly) binary girl in a system with two enbies.
I think it's pretty cool to see. This self-exploration wasn't a thing 3 years ago, and a lot has changed in the past year, mostly for the best. I admire Val for being so strong.
-Julayla
Sexuality and the bi/pan lesbian "debate"
Lots of gatekeepers out on twitter today unpersonning bi/pan lesbians, and it makes no sense to me.
Like, being pan is already a big spectrum/umbrella identity anyways, and with how much of a fluid spectrum gender is, it's hard to justify lesbianism to be just one thing when there's so many ways to be femme, have femme traits and have attraction to femme folks, or folks with femme traits.
If you self-identify as a pan lesbian, you are indeed very valid, regardless of if you mean that you're attracted to femininity in all people, or simply lean more on the sapphic side of the pan spectrum, or anything else.
Don't let the gatekeepers run the narrative. You don't need their permission to exist.
Non-binary transgender woman living in Belgium, head of the soundtrack collective Headache Central.