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Please do not forget that there was a Black lead instance on here for 3 yrs that decided to leave (with many friends, ily) bc they were consistently harassed and stalked for saying the kinds of things about racism/colorism/antiblackness/intersectionality that provoked self reflexion and they didn't like that.

The point I want to make is that you haven't upset them...yet.

This screenshot snippet from the interview w Miya Ponsetto, "the 22-year-old who allegedly attacked & falsely accused a Black teen of stealing her phone." is the perfect example of the problems with PoC solidarity & non black poc and their antiblackness.

Being a PoC doesn't mean you can't be racist, fedi and the world at large in a nutshell

Red flag : white ppl and white passing ppl who center their feelings abt "not being marginalized enough' and not being visible in spaces that are meant to center the voices and experiences of those that deal with racism.

Links back to this thread and Moraga realizing the ways in which she engages Blk Am folks. Moraga, however, doesnt have space for Afro-Mx's in her analysis & indigeneity to her is always mixed w whiteness (mestizaje) & *thats* what it means to be Indigenous/Chicana/Latina

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@CaribenxMarciaX They don't realize that their prime justification ("They are too drama-heavy! Waah!") is a product of white privilege leading them to be extremely averse to confrontation or even hard talks about their own invisible biases against BIPOC folks.

Apparently confronting people is drama. Which is pretty sad, because if they actually addressed the problems instead of going around this fucking tirade about how they're right and that the people upset about them are all haters, they wouldn't be having this problem in the first place.

This is one of the biggest bugbears I have in any white-owned and operated spaces. They would rather sweep problems under the rug than confront them directly, and I keep getting betrayed by people who I thought I could trust treating me like a hot potato to get rid of because I have problems with their most beloved, and I am sick of it.

my friend in another space wrote abt the tactics that ppl use in SM spaces to get rid of Blk women in particular off the platforms they actively create (and that others then benefit)

and if they remove ppl en masse, then its easy for them to say 'oh its not a problem about racism, antiblackness or misogyny, its a clear problem with those ppl over there'

then rinse wash repeat

which makes sense to me when i consider W.L is still abt but PV isn't.

@CaribenxMarciaX Been seeing a lot of really on-point takes from users of that instance. <3

Rage love is now the instance with visible no doubt about it People of Color and Black Folk mod team

and you will deal

So I've been reading about barn owls for a thing I'm writing, and they're fascinating!

Barn owls are adapted to be perfectly silent. With the structure of their feathers to their wing-to-body size ratio, they can fly perfectly silently. They also have such good hearing that they can catch prey in total darkness when they can barely see.

Also, barn owls don't hoot. Instead, they make this terrifying screeching sound.

re: Fediverse Meta, Fediblock 

By the way: if you agree with what I said in this, you need to send Ginny some money as she's the one that's been repeating this on loop for years: ginnymcqueen.com/support/

If you're using the Fediblock hashtag, you need to send Marcia some money as they're the one who originated it: artistmarciax.com/subscription

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re: racism, fedi & other meta, abuse ment 

@FreyaManibrandr they can't be that bad because they're leftist and don't say slurs uwu

Honestly "it's not racism unless there are slurs" is white-people respectability politics 🤷‍♀️

re: racism, fedi & other meta, abuse ment 

@ljwrites They can't even argue that anymore since I've been seeing a lot of instances of people like Noelle and Milly, going to twitter to harass PoC and call them not-quite-slurs-but-are -actually-if-you-think-about-it-for-5-seconds. And they do it in, you know, in spaces, where they think people like me won't see them doing that shit, or if they think we're too stupid to think we won't pick up on their black and indigenous -misic rhetoric just because they didn't use the "no no words"

re: racism, fedi & other meta, abuse ment 

@ljwrites Yeah that hypocrisy is extremely obvious to anyone who hasn't been buying into that "leftism as aesthetics" crap.

racism, fedi & other meta, abuse ment 

White people look down on saying slurs and sharing overtly dehumanizing images not because they are violent and harmful to racialized people (though of course they are, and should not be acceptable in any circumstance--and plenty of popular white people fail even that test :blobcatglaredrink: ) but because these are considered uncouth, lowbrow behaviors. That's why there was a strong consensus about kicking Gab off the fedi but it's hugely controversial and even dangerous to say out loud that leftist instances which harass Black and Indigenous users on ridiculous pretexts are being shitty. Even saying you're going to defederate from such an instance invites resentment, which is completely ridiculous because you do NOT under any circumstance have the right to other people's company against their will, like what the fuck is the matter with you.

posting this big list of black-owned goth brands again because i keep continually coming back to it and it's such a good resource: stephano.me/blog/black-owned-g

re: gender hot take 

@CaribenxMarciaX Yeah that person was being gatekeepy. Gender doesn't have to be performative, and there is always the possibility that the person is staying in the closet for safety reasons. This is why we don't gatekeep our enby bretheren, on the off chance they might be "pretending to be enby", because acting on that suspicion does more harm than good.

It could also be that a person may initially be pretending to be enby, and then discovered that they actually are through their own roleplaying, and people who discover their gender that way should be supported too.

re: selfie, butt, not explicit 

@prehensile That is a nice butt indeed <3

re: nsfw transformation art 

@NovaSquirrel CTF is a fun thing to draw. :3

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