@astra you gonna be okay?
We've been mulling for a while about how to word this, but:
Identity is not a logic puzzle.
It's a story
or a poem.
There is no excluded middle
no law of noncontradiction
there are landmarks,
memories,
friendships,
resonant frequencies that sound in unison with selves
and victories won in the struggle for self-understanding.
They should be celebrated.
@Jo Yeah, that's pretty much a reminder that society is still hostile to trans folk. :(
From yesterday on @BBCArchive: """ #Onthisday 1970: Wendy Carlos demonstrated how to synthesise electronic noise into musical sound. To discover more pioneers of electronic music, go here - https://www.bbc.co.uk/archive/electronic-music/zk8gpg8 """
https://twitter.com/bbcarchive/status/1358788928505933824
(CW: eye contact in the video)
re: Post-block subtoot
@Jo I'd be like..."Don't make me tap the sign!"
The sign "Colour blindness is a form of racism that ignores the centuries of racism, slavery and genocide that had happened, and ignores the current and present systems of oppression and genocide by racist institutions, and the progeny of slave owners.
It is essentially a coward's version of Holocaust Denial."
gaslighting, abuse PSA, clarification
This doesn't mean that you are never sensitive, or that people should never mention it. I say this as someone who really *is* overly sensitive (hello ADHD and RSD), but had that used against me for decades in abusive ways that did nothing to help me manage my sensitivity.
It can be helpful to say, "You seem sensitive about this, and I'd like to learn more about what's stressful to you so I can avoid accidentally hurting you."
It can also be helpful to say, depending on the nature and closeness of the relationship and if it's established that no lines are crossed, "You're obviously suffering and maybe you could learn healthier ways to cope with this."
It can EVEN be hard but honest to say, "I'm sorry, I can't accommodate you the way you need to be. Maybe we should have some space."
However, "You are too sensitive which automatically invalidates your pain and means I can keep on doing whatever the fuck I like no matter how you're hurting lol" is abuse. That is gaslighting. It helps no one except the speaker, certainly not the person who *by the the speaker's own admission* is in inordinate pain. If someone's reaction to your pain is to laugh at you and then keep hurting you, they don't care about you. This is abusive behavior.
USPOL
Why is it that every single argument against anarchism is taken from the lens of capitalism? People don't put that much though on what an anarchist community would look like, and kept putting their own imperialist projections onto it.
"Oh no anarchism wouldn't work because would destroy it."
No duh, that's why anarchism is also about shifting culture towards one that is more geared towards liberation.
re: Plural Meta
@FreyaManibrandr Plurality is a wild ride, but loving your alters is better than being at War with them, can say that much
@deejvalen If there is, let me know as well
@deejvalen Amazoness?
Plural Meta
It's pretty interesting how being poly becomes the default when you're plural, because like say if your girlfriend came out as plural, and as it turns out all of the alters love you, it's like gaining a new partner you didn't know you had, but are thankful for.
This is a new feeling for me, to be partnered with one of my headmates when we used to be merged together just a few years ago. But then again, life is strange, and I am enjoying the weirdness.
Artist and Composer. Trans plural voidpunk anarchist and antifa nonbinary gremlin. My voice is for the oppressed, and I shall fight for freedom with no quarter, so that those around me won't have to.
Plural members:
> Velvet Silmeria (Fae/They/She/Ey/He)
Räsvelg AY-N4 Tiyaga (Kit/Bit/She/They)
Lenneth Crimson (She/Xey/They/It)
Ashlynn Valefor (Xey/They/It/She)
Ricardo Sophia du Sol (Ey/He/They)
Saturnine Stargazer (She/They/It)
Innominat (They/Them)
Yuri Sunbreaker (It/She)