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queer discourse 

I think one thing that needs to be more widely-understood is that "being inclusive" doesn't mean catering to one person's specific discomforts, especially in larger spaces like Discord servers with like, 50 or more members

kink at pride discourse 

kink at pride is so much less sexual than the TV ads shoved in kid's faces constantly, but because those are cishet women being aimed at cishet men, it's considered totally fine. Queerness is viewed as inherently more sexual.

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kink at pride discourse 

"kink at pride" discourse is so fucking toxic and annoying that I wish I could just go to sleep until everyone finally accepts that seeing kink at pride is tied to pride's revolutionary roots, and to ban it would be to defang queer liberation

tho I have taken notice that the "no kink at pride" crowd has a suspiciously huge number of cishet defenders

bad allies

@FreyaManibrandr Nintendo is the absolute worst about that. And of course they immediately kill anything that gets media attention.

But the absolute worst BS is taking down ROM sites when they have a vast library of great games and then turn around and provide their Big 3 classics and fill the rest with steaming shit nobody wants.

If those games are so important, maybe sell some of it once you're done downloading it prior to your C&D?

Horny very nsfw 

So yeah, last night I fantasized about getting throat fucked, cock and anal pounded, all at once by the the headmates that used to be a part of Freyja.

That was a good mental image.

@FreyaManibrandr Yep. *Especially* anything Nintendo has their fingers in. I did some recent posts on it, but decided against linking this one to them.

TBH as much as I had some really cool and well-thought ideas that would have incorporated the existing characters, and unlike most Chrono fangames I understood and respected the lore (seriously, so many just wanted to undo Chrono Cross), I'd much rather do something cool for myself than a victory lap for someone else.

Random:
You know how I was talking about not doing fan games? I was able to completely remove my Chrono Break idea from Chrono as a series and I already have something that completely stands on its own, with a battle system that combines and enhances those from CT and CC, and a cast that really doesn't need any returning characters.

Sure, it meant cutting a lot of cool ideas about the way Chrono loose ends could be tied up, but the original ideas are enough on their own for a game.

random validation, please boost for those who need it 

:ms_transgender_flag::ms_transgender_flag::ms_transgender_flag:​ Trans Rights are Human Rights
:ms_agender_flag: :ms_nonbinary_flag: :ms_genderqueer_flag::ms_genderfluid_flag:​ All Genders (Including The Lack Thereof) Are Valid
:ms_rainbow_flag::ms_pansexual_flag::ms_asexual_flag:​​:ms_aromantic_flag:​ You Can Love Whoever You Want, However You Want

:ms_fist_paw::ms_fist_paw::ms_fist_paw:​ Nobody can convince us otherwise

github.com/devinacker/ymfmidi

i've been working on a MIDI player based on the new OPL3 emulation core from MAME! check it out if you like that sort of stuff

i need to put up some good audio examples later, but try it out with the included patch set (or supply your own) and see what you think

inheritance is fundamentally broken without encapsulation. if i inherit from a class, i can't define any new fields on my subclass without potentially overriding one of the fields of my superclass. like this is virtually unavoidable as long as superclasses can contain fields that are not part of their public API, and that i am allowed to accidentally override. this is just a fact

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stream, self promo, Tales of Vesperia finale 

Finishing this game up at last! live now on twitch.tv/TankControls

Rumination over Redemption Gatekeeping 

This is how you do redemption. Give a timeline to suss out their intent, give conditions for redemption, and follow through once conditions are met.

But then again, I never liked punishment as justice, I just want people to better themselves and for victims to be made whole again.

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Rumination over Redemption Gatekeeping 

...and weeks passed. Then she approached me asking for forgiveness, she had pulled her head out her ass and left those toxic groups, but I can't quite trust her yet.

So, I told her that it will take a while before I could forgive her, that she needs to give me some space, and work on herself to detox from those spaces.

Amazingly, she did just that, and slowly I was able to forgive her, and also help her reintegrate into groups that had kicked her out.

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Rumination over Redemption Gatekeeping 

Just to hammer this home, I have experience with this as the forgiver.

A while back, I have a friend who I had been trying to convince to leave the Raiders. She initially wouldn't, so after many years, I cut off contact with her. Her response was to stalk me, and commiserate with Altfurs who were trying to get me killed by potentially snitching to the CCP that I am trans. (They're not a smart bunch.)

Anyways, after that I declared her a lost cause...

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Rumination over Redemption Gatekeeping 

Honesty gets thrown out the window when you put someone in a no win situation, and this kind of uncertainty is very similar to the kind of tactics a narcissistic parent would use on a child.

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Rumination over Redemption Gatekeeping 

I admit, it is hard to talk about this, because people too easily assume that because I refused to persecute someone for making an honest mistake, I was defending the erroneous action.

Quite the opposite, it is very important to outline the path to redemption, and its conditions. This is because keeping the guilty party perpetually so out of enforced uncertainty, will only teach them that doubling down and denial gives the best outcome.

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