PV Archive-Whiteness & Fedi
April 16, 2020 19:47
When ppl are actually ready to have a discussion about their implicit antiblackness and colorism manifesting and being called out on it, particularly because they are white passing and there's a historical & social power dynamic that comes w that, let me know.
PV Archive-Whiteness & Fedi
continued:
We can have that frank conversation. Instead what I'm seeing is that the darkies are again bc framed as bad actors bc we discuss racial hierarchies that white supremacy put in place & that our communities maintain.
PV Archive-Whiteness & Fedi
April 16, 2020 19:51
What I'm seeing now is that calling out colorism and anti-blackness is a shitty thing to do and is offensive to light ppl and non black people of color.
In other words, Blk ppl and dark skinned Non Blk POC (bc hello they exist) can not talk abt how race manifests and affects them intracommunally.
PV Archive-Whiteness & Fedi
Think of it this way. 'Karen is a slur!' is a silencing tactic for ppl who build a language around discussing their oppressors. My statement above is no different.
for colonizers: here's your one reminder to mind your own fucking business with how indigenous people choose to acknowledge thanksgiving
whether it's treating it like a normal day, grieving, protesting, doing community work, or gathering with family to share food, it's absolutely none of your business. not a bit. if you really need to say something, give them money instead and say nothing
@FoolishOwl @eric @danieldekay @Tinu but yes the world is definitely filled with "the white moderate" who's "more dedicated to 'order' than to justice; who prefers a negative peace which is the absence of tension to a positive peace which is the presence of justice" and that's a real problem no matter where in the world you're trying to exist.
fediblock fribygda.no
just an admin entrenched in whiteness who made everything about themselves and their hurt feelings when asked to do basic antiracism
the thread is linked here, and the below image is an example of the kind of nonsense he comes out with. this is in response to gentle but blunt direction from people responding his query about antiracism: he's not even getting called out, he asked for input.
https://fribygda.no/@amici/109383493801682453
i've given it a day or so and the admin has just moved on, and still not publically reconsidered his white nonsense.
learning is an essential part of growth. whiteness must be eradicated from the roots. because amici has not shown any interest in humility, i'm alerting people through #fediblock
an antiracist fediverse is possible.
mutual aid request; begpost; trans gal needs help to keep her kitties safe; please boost; ; mentions pet death
so, I just realized that I need way more stuff to be able to bring my kittens home. I.. was just not thinking about it. Aside from putting the nets around the apartment I also need stuff like food and litter boxes and oof
my kittens are currently living with my parents but they started running away from home and while they do come back, the neighborhood is famously known for just fucking murdering street cats. I've been trying to save money to be able to bring them over safely but failing miserably
my mom going to spend some time away from home and my father can't and won't take care of the cats so I need to be able to bring them home ASAP or there are huge risks of them going away and never coming back ever again.
they are a litter of 4 (lugia, articuno, zapdos and moltres) but one of them is already with a good friend of mine. I'd keep the remaining 3 but they are too many so I'll be keeping 2 and giving one away even tho it pains me deeply
oh, those pics is from just a few days after they were born. they are now 8 months old but I don't have a pic of them all
https://ko-fi.com/ardydo/goal?g=0
thanks again >.<
re: Vent Post, Subtoot (---)
You're lucky it wasn't me you'd done this to, because had you emotionally betrayed me to the extent you did to my friend, you would be hearing about me in the obituaries the very next day.
I'd have become your second Verloren.
re: Vent Post, Subtoot (---)
I would have forgiven you had you put in the effort to not just enumerate what you did wrong, but to unfuck the situation you lead my friend into.
But instead you chose the easy path, and ran straight back to your comfort zone once you realize that fixing your mess would be difficult.
It really says something when the fucking CHUD of a roommate of theirs have treated them better than you have.
Vent Post, Subtoot (---)
You know, I never asked for this.
I never asked to have my friend be lead on emotionally or nearly a year in order to "save my feelings" from their suicidality. I never asked for my friend to be rammed up shit creek without a paddle emotionally as you go on to cheat on them, emotionally neglect them, before finally admitting that your relationship with them was out of pity.
Thanks to your actions, I had to sever myself from more than a few people I love and care deeply about, because everything you touched had become poison to me. And the most insulting thing?
You don't even care enough to go more than a day in my friend's shoes to try to understand the emotional hell you put them through.
Racism is a social problem, not a technical one. You fucking condescending assholes.
@ljwrites do ppl not realise that even if you block a racist...they'll just be racist to other ppl who haven't blocked them? or those offline who can't? blocking is for personal safety, not eliminating the root problem
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