I mean that seriously--not having kids is a totally valid life choice, and anyone who pressures anyone else (including their partner) to have kids is someone who deserves to be ignored as the useless busybody they are.
Having a kid and then resenting them for failing to meet your ideal is NOT valid. It is unfair to the child who literally never asked to be born, and it is a dereliction of a parent's duty to love their child unconditionally, and to make them feel safe & welcome at all times.
Those who doubt that people can be trans or that nonbinary people exist are on the same level of ignorant as a pre-archimedian mathematician believing that no numbers exist other than positive integers, negative integers and null.
Get with the times, you have rational genders, irrational genders, transcendent genders, hyperreal genders, surreal genders, p-adic genders, and best of all, genders that lie on the complex plane.
funds needed for a black autist system to deal with my father's abusive demands; birthday edition!
TL;DR: some bills are already late. It is my birthday month and there is nothing that I'd like than having my expenses covered
Some of my bills are already late. The credit card bill is on the 7th and I do really need to pay it as soon as I can to buy my cats food and litter since we're already out of litter and food is running out.
Also... my birthday is this month. I honestly would like nothing else than being free of my father but... I ran the numbers it is just too much money. Maybe if I can have my expenses covered I'll try and make it a goal.
thanks for your attention.
alt-right bigotry, "facts don't care about your feelings" kinda posting as i think
"common sense" is *obviously* a matter of feelings. it's instinctive. and we're talking about people who have to translate their perception of the world through a lens where your instinctive gut reaction is the only truth and everything else you believe is an extrapolation of what you need to believe in order for you to be right.
i get really bothered when transphobia pretends it's not coming from "you are gross"
alt-right bigotry, "facts don't care about your feelings" kinda posting as i think
"facts don't care about your feelings" keeps sticking with me as a catchphrase for bigotry. i dunno if it's relevant anymore, but there's just been something about that phrase in particular that really epitomizes a worldview.
generally i chalk it up to a comical projection. "jesus these are invariably coming from someone overcompensating"
but like.
no i think it's more revealing than that, it's all the "your"
alt-right bigotry, "facts don't care about your feelings" kinda posting as i think
i think what it is, is an unusually straightforward declaration of a war waged against empathy
like, i dunno if people immediately get what i mean when i say this, but i would argue facts *totally* care about feelings.
hello social constructions
hi laws
hey classifications how you doing
our *realities* are built around feelings and that's gonna be the majority of 'facts' we care about
I have made a Carrd
https://manibrandrstudios.carrd.co/
on antisemitism and intersectionality
I've said before and I'll say it again, transphobia is inextricably linked to antisemitism, and transphobes are inextricably tied to the ideologies that informed the German NAZI party from WWII, their progeny in American Conservatism, and European Fascism.
You should not fail to talk about the other when talking one of those subjects. Transphobia has always been, and will always be linked to anti-semitism. If you claim to be a trans ally, yet think that it's okay to ignore or make light of anti-semitism, then I do not want you as an ally. Do better or fuck off.
Can we get rid of the term NSFW please?
It is not a useful CW!
What work? Sex work is work but it is not SFW‽
Games probably should be NSFW but aren't
Also, why everything should be categorized in the function of an idealized workplace?
Let's just use, for example, "nudity", "lewd", "sex", "violence" or whatever word fits the content and *is actually informative*
Islamophobia, how to help protect people from harassment
this great tumblr thread talks about the spike in harassment of Islamic people around the anniversary of 9/11, and how to intervene if you witness harassment in a public place. it has a helpful comic and a helpful transcription too!
https://dykewallpaper.tumblr.com/post/662073297565089793/small-text-reads-however-just-to-note-if
Art Fight Attack that I did back in July!!
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Full Body, Full Shading, + 1 prop
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(c) Character - Summer Spino - @ReddSprout
#artfight2023 #redlumas #reddsprout #spinosaurus #spino #Spoon #commissionsopen #opencommissons
Being a #Trans #indigenous person, telling truth about Hawaii that is burning from a Native Hawaiian perspective, making anti-capitalist games #gamedev + debunking imperial propaganda all day long!
Artist and Composer. Trans plural voidpunk anarchist and antifa nonbinary gremlin. My voice is for the oppressed, and I shall fight for freedom with no quarter, so that those around me won't have to.
Plural members:
> Velvet Silmeria (Fae/They/She/Ey/He)
Räsvelg AY-N4 Tiyaga (Kit/Bit/She/They)
Lenneth Crimson (She/Xey/They/It)
Ashlynn Valefor (Xey/They/It/She)
Ricardo Sophia du Sol (Ey/He/They)
Saturnine Stargazer (She/They/It)
Innominat (They/Them)
Yuri Sunbreaker (It/She)