Already ran into a person I can't follow so I'm rethinking this lol

@SomeEgrets that could work!

and if there's a specific instance you want to communicate with, you could also @ an admin to ask them to whitelist~

single user instances are very easy to justify since they are just one person

@thingywott yeah! I'm just in deep fried brain territory, so if I can make the thing I already have work for me, I think I'm just gonna do that. If there are actual problems, I can just deal with them as they happen rather than try to anticipate every possible future before it happens.

@SomeEgrets yeaaah, i've definitely been there ^^'

i hope you feel better soon though! (also, it's nice seeing you around again..!)

@SomeEgrets Yeah I went to chitter.xyz because of this.

@SomeEgrets I specifically opted not to use awoo.space because of the allowlist only federation policy.

@chalur @SomeEgrets I wouldn’t use mastodon without it tbh as my experience is notably less terrible because the bad instances can’t find me and spinning up a new one can’t get around that.

@chalur @SomeEgrets honestly I wish we had to follow instances in order to federate with them or something as malicious ones are way way way too common and I don’t want my toots going to them at all and a allowlist is the only practical solution I’ve found for that.

@SomeEgrets i think you can transfer your account and it migrates your follows/followers too?

i haven't done this of course, but i've seen mention of it around a bunch! and that means you can use whatever instance you like without needing to worry about too much hassle~