Abe E Seedy @abe_e_seedy@awoo.space

I feel like when people get so defensive about thinking about porn, stuff like this is what they're missing out on. Good porn can be a force for good, presenting concepts like this in a context that shows them working, rather than in the dry surroundings of an advice column
8/10

And that's leaving aside more straightforward stuff like, "here's some good ideas you can play with later" or "here's some hot words you can enjoy using, in preference to others which might have connotations or unpleasantness that you can easily avoid."
7/10

- the idea that sex doesn't require all participants to climax at the same time to be 'good', and that if the situation lends itself more towards taking turns, all focussing on one person, or just leaning into the moment, that can be better than fixating on a climax
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- the fact that sex can be clumsy and awkward and funny, but that doesn't mean that it can't still be hot when you want it to be. If you're having a good time, it'll survive a quick laugh if someone accidentally invites you to "cuck their sock"
5/10

Here's some examples of things that good porn can get across:

- ways to negotiate specific consent that actually enhance the hotness of the experience. If you tease partners with dirty talk about what you're planning, hearing them say 'yes' can be part of that
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Porn - especially amateur, niche internet porn - is where you can see behaviours and concepts modelled that are just not represented anywhere else. Good porn can give positive ideas, even when the actual content is within the realms of fantasy
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But some of the replies got me thinking - whenever someone talks about being thoughtful about porn, folks jump to, "can't we not think about it? You just want to take away bad things I like!"
What I want to add is, what about the benefits of thinking about the good things?
2/10

A few days ago @angrboda posted this piece on Tumblr, talking about being thoughtful about porn, specifically on the topic of TG (TransGender) transformation.
http://monstrousdoctor.tumblr.com/post/171523446248/genuine-question-not-trying-to-imply-or-apportion
It's a really good piece, and I'd recommend reading it if you delve into that at all. 1/10

Yo, @angrboda and I are just about to start streaming within the next 5 mins or so, over at https://picarto.tv/angrboda

Come and hang out!

A friend made a "lolly cake", because it's apparently what she found as a traditional NZ food. It's incredibly tasty but also like basically eating a stick of butter rolled in sweets

actually I stayed for about 4 hours and it was pretty decent! huh. Did not expect that

Now to go to after work drinks when what I really want to be doing is playing Stellaris.

I wonder how soon is too soon to leave the free drinks we got from winning the pub quiz...

Just saw this play - it was very good!

So it turns out I'm watching Black Panther tonight in the same building that's hosting the Brit Awards? There's like a red carpet and everything.

I guess I should expect stuff like this when my local cinema is 02

https://www.warhammer-community.com/2018/02/18/shadow-queen-unveiled/
if you're curious what I'm referring to. It's not exactly *hot*, but it's closer than I was expecting for sure

For the first time in a while my phone recommended me an article about tinymans (Games Workshop stuff), so I shrugged and clicked.

It turned out to be introducing a new version of an elf character who now, apparently, canonically transforms back and forth into a snake babe due to the corruption of the god of sex/indulgence.

Good to know the algorithms in my phone are extremely on point, I guess.

It helps if I toot the link! https://picarto.tv/angrboda

Streamin! NSFW fem Anubis TF comic w/ hypno. Streaming with @angrboda

https://awoo.space/media/OBTaJa731xNl2MzU7jE

Yo, for folks interested, Ang and I are going to be doing another #TF stream at 3:30 EST (in about an hour and a half). We're thinking of making it a regular Sunday thing, so come along if you're interested! We'll toot again when it's up.