I think I had a flash of insight in understanding the term Relationship Anarchy. Basically :prioritizing the emotions of yourself and the people around you over any concept of formal structure of any relationship.
...which is basically what I think I've been doing for years?
A thing I've said before: "a relationship isn't a thing you *have*, it's a thing you *do*."
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@starkatt somehow I made a few quick mental hops to imagining relationships as skateboard tricks
180 double kickflip to loving partnership!!!