If anyone has ever told you that programming is more essential than a second language, they are lying to you. They want more programmers to pay the rest less. The world doesn't need more unhappy programmers who hate their jobs and their work suffers due to poor morale.
If you don't want to be a programmer, you don't have to be.
You don't have to learn to code.
Do what you like (but be mindful of job supply/demand... we sadly live in a capitalist world and that's not going to change soon).
@copenhagen_bram no thank you, but I appreciate the offer :/ not something talking will solve sadly. but id love to chat later perhaps.
vaguely anti-straight I guess
@copenhagen_bram I have like 5 or 6 significant others and they can't be stolen because they're not my property
oops
vaguely anti-straight I guess
@kellerfuchs thanks <3
vaguely anti-straight I guess
detail view on that tank top btw https://awoo.space/media/TAPeFuuxFHD3XYIhkRY
fuck it, at least I look awesome today https://awoo.space/media/SyZWShqCetL9PL3K95Y https://awoo.space/media/DSSx5cGT4_OTOlYuV_s
@aji agreed, it feels very frustrating and kind of inconvenient. on the "bright" side it means if i don't have my SK with me i'm locked out of my account, just like everyone else, so idk
venting
idk. maybe it is all my fault for not taking it seriously enough when they were venting.
venting
I _really_ don't like interacting in situations where I can't trust the other part(y|ies) to speak up and communicate if things are negative :/
It gets us places like these.
I hate that interacting with this person I used to love interacting with is now a massive landmine field. It really hurts that this landmine field has only shown up _now_, long since I've already been hurting them with my carelessness, and now I'm deep in the thick of it with no good way out.
vaguetooting, interpersonal interactions (-)
I have no idea how to make any of this better :/
vaguetooting, interpersonal interactions (-)
I am _so frustrated_ about the state of interactions with myself and A. I really, really wish they had communicated what they have now, months ago; and I really wish I could have heard it as clearly as they thought they were transmitting. And now the interpersonal relationship is in deep dysfunctional disrepair and I really just don't even know how to handle this anymore.
I really really like Mastodon's UI vs. Twitter. Representing DMs as private toots interspersed with your normal timeline really helps the ephemeral nature of communication here, as opposed to Twitter, where DMs are off in their own little world. I really like the fact that I come back to a clean slate every morning.
@thefishcrow thank you very much!!
@thefishcrow hiiii! can I have another invite to make an AD profile? ^^
Moved back to vulpine.club. Please go re-follow me there! :)