selfie, masked
i took a mask pic for the first time in AGES and that feels Rly Good
I should wear masks more around the house https://awoo.space/media/8VHL0trHaSHnoAm3ij8
selfie, mh(~-)
good morning, Mastodon! awooooo! I am really not doing great today because of a lot of reasons but here's a selfie because cute pics of me are absolutely self care c:
There was a tumblr post I saw that was talking about "I wish I could go on dates with people but without the romantic involvement" and people were like "That's just friendship" and other people were like "No it's this other really complicated thing with a new name" and, like, honestly?
Normalize the FUCK out of highly-emotional, loving friendships. We shouldn't need a new word for that. That's just being friends.
https://twitter.com/ericthedragon/status/956313410844680193
TRANS LOVE IS SO GOOD
Design Thinking about sexuality in communities
Re the current discussions about making friends in communities where open sexuality is common, I'm thinking about how we can do better with tools and values about communication.
So, I have a question for folks, especially those who feel they're not well-served in these communities currently:
What do YOU, personally, want others to know about your needs, regarding sexuality or lack thereof?
(Answers in DMs okay!)
queer community + sex
I've seen this around a few places and I figure it's worth being explicit about:
You **do not** need to have sex with me or do kinky things with me or cuddle with me to be my friend. I promise, I won't think of you as less good because you say "no".
I do want to be clear though, I _am_ a sexual being and I _am_ a very kinky person, and both of those are big parts of me, and I don't think they can be fundamentally fully separated from my identity. Everything intersects.
Since I haven't actually done this yet for this account: #introductions time!
Hi! I'm Rylee! I'm a:
- #nonbinary girl (I use she/her and they/them; either is acceptable!)
- #SRE by day -- making systems scalable without needing to scale your ops team with it
- #NYC resident!
- #furry + #otherkin! what species i actually am varies, but typically some kind of canid (fox/wolf) as of now ... but who knows? maybe i'll be an otter in the future.
- #postfurry! glowy and soft and fully synthetic.
Moved back to vulpine.club. Please go re-follow me there! :)