birdsite link, but cute
@EeveeEuphoria oshawott day makes me so happy!
@EeveeEuphoria i only learned about that today too, i keep missing extremely good days
the next one i'm *definitely* paying attention to is oshawott day on march 10th though!
diapers~
@rufflebat agreed, and yes, and definitely ❤️
@noiob *recalls years of npcs talking about physical buttons to players*
@ctrlaltdog@chitter.xyz it helped me a lot personally because it meant that the generalized "bad feels" suddenly had concrete reasons attached to them
and the cool thing about concrete reasons is that i can plan ways to topple those, and even having the prospect of direction makes me significantly less anxious in general
if you think it would help, i highly recommend giving it a shot! ^^
@ctrlaltdog@chitter.xyz gosh, massive mood
i've actually recently started trying to write down my anxieties, and then trying to distill those into the root things they are actually about underneath the seemingly-random alarm bells that go off in my mind that make me not want to do the things i actually mega-want to do
@ctrlaltdog@chitter.xyz i think that, after getting the go-ahead that things are cool, whatever pace you're comfortable with is the best option..!
but also, if you want to do more things in general, but also have unwanted pushback in your mind with no discernable external factors, that also means that you're uncomfortable with taking it slow as slow as you are, and you can use that as a justification to push yourself forward
i do this with a lot of things, because i'm super-anxious about a lot ^^'
@EeveeEuphoria them..!
@chao oh! seeya next time then~! ^^
something just occurred to me; it's been three days since i started trying to get up early every day...and i've been tired exactly *none* of these days!!
i haven't even been particularly strict with my bedtime routine, but this has never happened before, is making this early morning habit really going to be this easy for me this time??
*knocks on every piece of wood in a three mile radius*
abdl
that is, of course, if you choose to do that
there's no law that says you ever need to stop enjoying sitting on fluffy cloud-like underwear with cute prints all day
abdl, slightly gross
you know, it just dawned on me that the best way to explain how diapers feel to wear is to explain that the inside of them is made from the same material as orbeez, except their default state is basically cotton
so, nice ones feel like sitting on a cute, soft cloud by default, and even if you *do* use them, they're mostly just a weird sensory experience that also stops anything gross from touching anything, so the end result is a little gross, but a lot less than you'd think
@KitRedgrave hee, i'm actually reading that right now!
and you're right, it's an extremely interesting outlook
@KitRedgrave i've recently started noticing an increasing number of personal problems that i'm not even sure exist
like, laziness seems to just be a label people give others when they're judging them for not having the same priorities as them, or something peeps self-flagellate with when they feel guilty--it's seldom because those people aren't actually doing anything
…and if they aren't, that's called executive dysfunction, which *also* isn't laziness; it's even something that can be treated!
@monorail that's so cool!
it never occurred to me that they could be used like that
oh hi! i do computers, and sometimes draw stuff~ i like lo-fi things and cute aesthetics!
i also probably like you
(also, tagged #abdl ahead, soooo 🔞)