Crom, Kobold King @vahnj@awoo.space
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Pronouns: he/him/they/them
Gay: yes
Admin: very
Kobolds: every day
Private account: @crom
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I'm an admin! Please don't add me in follow Friday threads.
call me James, Crom, or vahn
sad and gay friendo, lover of and father to kobolds.
lewd jokes != flirting
I follow back awoo.spacers! Lemme know if you don't want that.
An introvert with social anxiety, and depression.
Joined Feb 2017
Semi public lament about masto, some talk about boundaries and my approach
@literorrery I don't that's why I rely on the summit a lot to make decisions if I'm able to facilitate myself doing as such haha
Semi public lament about masto, some talk about boundaries and my approach
I do everything in my power to not heck it up but I'm fallible and even this process fails sometimes.
That said, if you're ever willing to give me constructive feedback, I'm willing to listen but I may ask for a different time based on spoons.
Thanks for reading and understanding my process folks
Semi public lament about masto, some talk about boundaries and my approach
When I do act, here is my approach:
- is the person acting out of intent to harm?
- is the persons harm enough to ignore intent?
- does the user have a long history of problems?
Assuming I have a good relationship with the user, I will reach out to them
If I don't, I usually speak with my summit before acting- a decently sized group of awoo.space folks who are in our discord and choose to participate
Semi public lament about masto, some talk about boundaries and my approach
Lately a lot of folks have put a lot of pressure on me to be a sort of moral compass for the fediverse
I want y'all to know, I hear you and am trying my best to help folks do the best they can
But we need to be clear about how this works for me:
- I will take you seriously even if I don't act
- I act if awoo users have become involved
- I act if the behavior causes harm or can lead to causing harm
M a c k e r h a n
@woozle hello this is an incredible idea
Crom, Kobold King
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What would be great is if, instead of blocking someone who is problematic, I could put a "warning tag" on their account. Then whenever they tooted, the toot would be visibly flagged for me as being from a warning-flagged user.
I could also choose to hide all warning-tagged toots, if I wasn't in the mood for dealing with them.
Even better: people who follow me would see the warning tags as well (popup on toot: "user has been warning-tagged by Woozle Hypertwin [and 27 others you follow]").
Good night
@Gaypow @modernmodron @thefishcrow@cybre.space ffffffff
@squirrel good night maple
@thefishcrow@cybre.space @modernmodron hoot weels
Crom, Kobold King
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@vahnj *gif of Stitch destroying the toy city but all the buildings say "gender" on them*
@modernmodron it was fun! Why the fuck am I not allowed to imagine what home life is like for fun
@modernmodron my sister let me for a while and then my parents found out
@modernmodron I played with barbies when I was a kid and wouldn't have known it was taboo if my family hadn't told me they weren't toys for boys
Crom, Kobold King
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@vahnj My Two Mlems
two and a half mlem
---
Pronouns: he/him/they/them
Gay: yes
Admin: very
Kobolds: every day
Private account: @crom
...
I'm an admin! Please don't add me in follow Friday threads.
call me James, Crom, or vahn
sad and gay friendo, lover of and father to kobolds.
lewd jokes != flirting
I follow back awoo.spacers! Lemme know if you don't want that.
An introvert with social anxiety, and depression.
Joined Feb 2017
