Crom, Kobold King @vahnj@awoo.space
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Pronouns: he/him/they/them
Gay: yes
Admin: very
Kobolds: every day
Private account: @crom
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I'm an admin! Please don't add me in follow Friday threads.
call me James, Crom, or vahn
sad and gay friendo, lover of and father to kobolds.
lewd jokes != flirting
I follow back awoo.spacers! Lemme know if you don't want that.
An introvert with social anxiety, and depression.
Joined Feb 2017
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m4m (mlem for mlem)
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hey siri where can i find kobolds
nazis, seattle, reddit link
literal nazis running around fearlessly in Seattle
be safe out there, friends
https://www.reddit.com/r/SeattleWA/comments/6zrpcb/actual_real_nazis_have_started_to_show_up_in/
here's the original link (thanks @Wulf@glitch.social)
hello i'm still thinking about this
(birdsite link)
https://twitter.com/dethbox/status/906925418086895616 https://awoo.space/media/LAq6feyMXiCu6z4anAw
birdsite link, cute goblins
found more cute gobbos
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Chocobo
©H🅾©🅾🅱🅾
🐤
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Please boost if you can. <3
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discourse follow-up
Hello! I want to let you all know I wrote a thread yesterday about navigating our situation with some usable tools to try to navigate this.
Maybe we're too far gone for this to be useful, but if this helps anybody navigate what's happening, that's a win for me.
Hey admins!
Here's some very straightforward instructions if you're not intimately familiar with git (pff, like anyone is):
1. go to the base directory of your project
2. run "git fetch"
3. run "git cherry-pick b9d241c6f554570e0677d9354b27dad21322e341"
Then, the next time you update, make sure you run "git pull --rebase v1.#.#" so your git history doesn't get ruined compared to the official branch
Hey admins!
There's a major issue in stock 1.6 that requires that you make some changes to ActivityPub, as suspended users' messages are not being properly rejected. This includes domain blocks.
To fix it, run git cherry-pick against this commit and restart:
https://github.com/tootsuite/mastodon/commit/b9d241c6f554570e0677d9354b27dad21322e341
Love y'all. I am sorry you are all hurting. We can work our way through this, I know we can.
Meta-discourse, #socialharm
But we're all prone to error. The more we open ourselves to each other, the more chances we have to harm each other.
It's important to acknowledge this, it's important to recognize where the wrong is, to acknowledge the harm done, and to work to make up for it, even if there is wrong on both sides.
Own up to yourself, and work together. This has been such a great community before now- I know we can do better than tonight.
Meta-discourse, #socialharm
If these are things you can't sit down and do, the harm will simply perpetuate, as we're seeing tonight.
Are you hurting too much to seek reparation for harm? Take a break. You can mute the folks who have harmed you. You are allowed to take breaks from people. You are allowed to give yourself space. Do this!
Meta-discourse, #socialharm
So, at the end of the day, what does this all mean?
1. If your immediate instinct is, "I've done nothing wrong," stating this is not the right way to handle someone's problem with you. Seek to understand the harm.
2. Address and acknowledge the harm if you're involved. If you're an outsider, address it with your "side". Consider where harm occurred.
3. Figure out how you can mitigate the harm done, and try to work with the person you hurt.
Meta-discourse, #socialharm
Sometimes, the refusal is not a conscious one. There is not a problem you are directly responsible for, so it is not your fault. It is important in this situation to address how the other person feels you are at fault, and to engage that to understand why you are being held to task.
If you can push through that to work with the person, you are 99% the way through the process, and the rest is time.
But nothing happens without good faith & communication.
Meta-discourse, #socialharm
So- when people are discussing this publicly, on a soap box, just perpetuating opinions and receipts, all we're seeing is a cycle of harm that leaves everyone hurting more and more.
Nobody is sitting down and discussing with one another in good faith in this kind of situation.
Sometimes, even with an attempt at good faith, negotiations break down. That often happens as a consequence of refusing to address harm done.
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Pronouns: he/him/they/them
Gay: yes
Admin: very
Kobolds: every day
Private account: @crom
...
I'm an admin! Please don't add me in follow Friday threads.
call me James, Crom, or vahn
sad and gay friendo, lover of and father to kobolds.
lewd jokes != flirting
I follow back awoo.spacers! Lemme know if you don't want that.
An introvert with social anxiety, and depression.
Joined Feb 2017
