@Elizafox
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@lizardsquid *heart is warmed simply by witnessing this*
Rant?
@Eriadam @AdalwinAmillion I can relate to this sentiment.
@murilega Well, that gives me a sad.
@murilega Well, best you rectify this situation post-haste!
@AdalwinAmillion And not a drop to drink.
...no, wait.
@murilega Oh no, your poor, empty tiny cups!
@Leucrotta Don't rush it!. I just put whiskey in my morning coffee so it ain't quite yet time for me.
@dragonluvr89 What's it about?
gender agender
I think I feel that I may be "too male" to claim anything else, despite my reservations. Outwardly, most of my presentation-based idiosyncrasies reflect a "repressed-goth" more than anything else. Though this development and attempt to express myself through appearance has become markedly more obvious (per my spouse) since having lost a significant amount of weight--as though I now feel more comfortable exploring different elements of expression.
gender agender
@Goldkin I've always had a sense of guilt and awkwardness with my societally-imposed prescribed gender-expectations, but I always assumed that was inexorably tied to either clinical depression or my guilt with regards to sexuality. It really hasn't been until the past year that I've started to fully appreciate the difference between all of those.
gender agender
@Goldkin Thank you very much for this. I'm not sure if I can ever feel confident enough to claim anything as far as identity--as I have issues with feeling that I have not "earned" something--but this gives me significantly more to think about.
@murilega IT'S MURI! YAY!
gender agender
Throwing this out there for any honest input and hoping I don't regret it.
Where is the line (or vast DMZ) between 'agender' identity and just typical dissatisfaction and guilt over culturally expected and imposed norms for one's assumed gender? Are there any distinct qualifiers between "I am not this" and "I feel guilty?"
Asking for a friend.
@vantablack 6h
Several Queer, Fashionable, Repressed, Demon-Haunted Gremlins in a Single Bioform || nonbinary agremderflux