@KawaSeadrake @mawr I think we naturally reevaluate things as time goes on, things progress, and we get a better understanding of ourselves (or maybe it just shifts on its own)

@Oneironott @mawr @KawaSeadrake
I keep leaning towards masculine, which is fine, but I feel like I can't /quite/ say that I don't really have much of a femme side when I haven't actually explored what I do have.

Nominally the dragon self is demi-boy at the least, and the phoenix is... both/neither/between binaries. Toy's just null. So that leaves me with three different gender ideals, though not incompatible ones. o.o

@KawaSeadrake @mawr @Oneironott
The dragon self is especially interesting since... literally just my past self, which I've been trying to visualize how they might have changed since.
I get the general impression the dragon still uses 'he' pronouns, identifies demi-boy, and probably prefers the anatomy I'm ending up with (i.e. after bottom surgery). But there's still that 'very soft boy' feeling for him, definitely. :-}