Mormonism and gender (1/?)
I started writing this out on Tumblr but I'll kind of paraphrase it here:
In Mormon culture, it's not considered "gay" or gender-nonconforming for men to be interested in theater, musicals, or singing/dancing. It's also considered admirable for men to cry, especially when experiencing strong emotions or being "moved by the Spirit." (I could write a whole other thing about the intricacies of crying within Mormonism.)
self harm sui ------------
anyways I cut myself tonight. idk if i can eat. haven't eaten all day. i just want to cry but no tears are coming. I'm just shaking. I can beryl type this. I have so much homework to do
Money, help needed...
waiting to see if my earnings in the past month were low enough for UC to grant me anything, and to hear when the next HMRC grant will be paid (and if it'll be a decent percentage or the 20% they threatened us with in November) and for PIP to start paying my partner (and the back pay they now owe her) and while we wait, panicking about paying bills and having to tell the landlord yet again that rent will be late...
If anyone can help, my cashapp is https://cash.app/%C2%A3wolfpurplemoon
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I have a friend who is just coming out in Vegas.
She is looking for HRT clinics that do informed consent or can easily get access.
I'm unsure if I know anyone who is from or lives in the Vegas Region.
If you do, can you possibly contact me?
Boost this if you can, And I can relay information to her.
It would mean the world, she means a lot to me.
"Nina, why do you despise and mistrust liberals so much?"
*watches Joe Biden negotiate against himself to reduce relief checks by 600 dollars while every corporate media outlet in America plays Simon Says to justify breaking his very first promise after getting elected*
"Dunno; guess I'm just a victim of right wing propaganda..."
don't have to tell all of YOU this, but what a bunch of bullshit to ignore the great work of the Social Web W3C group! Twitter has done nothing but antagonize us in the process. Keep reminding these opportunistic fools. https://www.w3.org/wiki/Socialwg#Social_Web_Working_Group https://www.w3.org/TR/social-web-protocols/
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re: Racism on Fedi | Describing Racists' use of Slurs | Errata
Correction on this; It wasn't an admin, but they ARE friends with the person who hurled the racist epithet at PlayVicious.
They didn't act against the perp until the perp started turning his toxicity at a white person. Which yeah, it's still telling.
A #GwenfarColours #Florespondence
I wanted to do something Autumnal and chose this page from Joanna Basford's Enchanted Forest colouring book.
I'm fairly pleased with it. Though I should have looked up techniques on how to colour background before I got halfway through!
USPOL | Capitol Hill
https://apnews.com/article/capitol-siege-fort-worth-texas-e13a0ee09d543415d46c3f34a02f444b
Just in case you need any more proof that Trump's coven of psychopaths are lying when they claimed there was no ill-intent. They are gaslighting you, don't let them.
Racism on Fedi | Describing Racists' use of Slurs
Like, these are the same people who accused an entire instance of queer furries of being racist because someone called a serial harasser a clown, which, by the way, created a shitstorm that ended up with Snouts collapsing after over a decade of operation.
All while on the same breath chased indigenous ex-Snouts users down on twitter to call them a "mangy mutt" or whose admin called PlayVicious a "minstrel show"
They are supposed to be our allies, and yet they merely added to the hundreds of knives already buried on the backs of BIPOC folk.
I will never shut up about how the fediverse drove away an instance for black folks and by black folks. Not until the problems that lead to PV's shut down are fixed.
And I will never shut up about how key users and admins of Elekk contributed to that harassment. Fix your racism, you've already driven away too many people because of it.
"Harmful behavior toward Black women isn’t enough to inspire change until others are harmed, but the original harms are often lost by journalists tasked with covering tech. The power and rhetoric that went unchecked becomes common. And the tactics used against Black women for “lulz” become weapons used in the conspiracies destabilizing the very nature of truth, from the swarming of victims to posing as Black women to destabilizing communities"-S Harry
Sound familiar?
https://www.wired.com/story/listening-to-black-women-the-innovation-tech-cant-figure-out/
whiteness
analysis here is so poorly done that non-latine white folks got suckered into believing that white latines are an oppressed class of ppl
and ur seeing these white latines be the megaphone for darker blk or indi latine folks, who are actually silenced by them.
theyre also going around being incredibly racist but theyre 'latine' so its ok.
this place has no potential for liberation.
Please do not forget that there was a Black lead instance on here for 3 yrs that decided to leave (with many friends, ily) bc they were consistently harassed and stalked for saying the kinds of things about racism/colorism/antiblackness/intersectionality that provoked self reflexion and they didn't like that.
The point I want to make is that you haven't upset them...yet.
This screenshot snippet from the interview w Miya Ponsetto, "the 22-year-old who allegedly attacked & falsely accused a Black teen of stealing her phone." is the perfect example of the problems with PoC solidarity & non black poc and their antiblackness.
Being a PoC doesn't mean you can't be racist, fedi and the world at large in a nutshell
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