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As a white dude who likes to argue online, one thing that took me way too long to learn is that the devil doesn't need an advocate. Look around. The devil does just fine for himself in this cruel ass world.

selfies ec 

For reference here are some pics of me from last night as I struggled to contain a galarian zigzagoon

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one last thing about the current meta, especially if you are confused or new 

I have come to my conclusions from listening and watching, and some of them have hurt. there are people I... enjoyed interacting with, who I don't enjoy interacting with any more, having read what they write, having seen their behavior.

just... pay attention. read what's being written, and notice especially who is saying what, and *who they're saying it to*. notice who they are *not* replying to. notice *how* they respond to different people, with different avatars, backgrounds, and bios. listen to the justifications, all of them. listen to the reasons for actions taken, and actions not taken.

take notes for your own records, if it'll help you keep track. I haven't. my memory isn't perfect, and it doesn't help that I have a particularly bad memory for names/handles. but I remember patterns of behavior. I have seen these patterns play out multiple times, with some of the same people, over and over.

if you come to a different conclusion than I have, or if you can't come to a conclusion at all... that's all right. just remember, the next time it comes around--and *it will*. remember what you saw this time, the next time it plays out.

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An instance full of bad faith actors using the vague term “shitposting” to shame anybody who has called them out rightfully for their continuous harassment and abuse of other people on fedi while trying to hide behind the “were marginalized too!!!” as if punching sideways isn’t just as bad if not worse than punching down is finally experiencing consequences for their actions?

I’m shocked. Truly. Never would have guessed.

callout meta, harassment site (subtoot, none of y'all) 

don't cite kiwifarms

don't cite sources which cite kiwifarms

fuck's sake, kiwifarms exists to harm people - they are openly and explicitly a malignant source and they actively should not be trusted about anything

The day after I posted this, I told @Harena I was half-expecting someone to come along and accuse me of being a fascist for blocking fascists -- despite how absurd that claim would be.

Well, guess what! :D

Please feel free to help this person understand the problem with their views.

MH (~) | Fedi Meta 

I have been mildly triggered several times today following the Fedi Meta stuff, because it keeps reminding me of the same abuse patterns from the bad crowds I used to hang with, that I'd worked so hard to escape.

But you know what? Fuck it, I am powering through it and I am holding the line.

Fedi Meta | Community Self-Defense 

I have no patience for DARVO tactics. Try it with me and earn a free block.

It's pretty funny how the shithawks pop up like shit-mushrooms to yammer on about how defedding or calling out toxic communities is somehow racist when the entire reason they got defedded is because of racist anti-blackness, and general harassment from those instances that had been unaddressed for a very long time.

Yes, the anti-blackness is everywhere on the Fedi, that doesn't mean that we can't take community self-defense measures to address some of it. And no, the perps being PoC doesn't magically make the racism go away.

You wanna know what's REALLY racist? White-washing the folks hurt by those toxic instances, and erasing the ethnic identity and struggles of the PoC negatively affected by the abuse.

Fuck off with that disingenuous bullshit.

demanding receipts of behavior from the victims of harassment is tricky business. most of us have long removed ourselves from the harmful party, so that leaves two options when presented with the demand:

1) show old receipts, could go to establishing a pattern, but more often than not is dismissed as old news and "people are allowed to change"
2) post new receipts and brace for the blowback of block evading or stalking, regardless of how the receipts came into our possession, and get dismissed as an aggressor

y'all get it? receipts are useful but not the magic bullet you'd like to think it is. it can and often is turned right back around against us.

if you ask abt setting up a rotation to harass an instance for making a block choice...thats yea, harassment. does what it says on the tin

you're actively saying you believe in harassment.

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If you do not believe in a behavior when you're on the receiving end of it, you shouldn't be doing it to others, either.

i dont feel sympathy for ppl who have a toolset of mocking, harassing behavior that they use over n over, and then suddenly its a faux pas when its done to them

i asked questions on PV abt why I was in the wrong for providing ss of my harasser & told i was ss dunking, when 'providing' receipts was the thing to do? multiple ex's of shifting goal posts exists. multiple

Fedi Meta | Subtoot 

Yeah no, when you accuse people doing the right thing for community self-defense and painting them as virtue-farming, that is just a huge red flag, one that I am not willing to chance with you.

I have seen too many Gamergaters, Furry Raiders and Altfurs doing this exact same shit in the past.

Here's my favorite, and possibly the most well-known Marilyn Buck poem called "Incommunicado"

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it details the repression she and other political prisoners faced in the immediate aftermath of 9/11

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Fedi Meta | Subtoot 

You're not the only one hurting, everytime your actions get brought up, I get reminded of the friends I had on the Fedi, on Snouts, on PV who had been harassed off by you and your goons. You probably don't care how much it hurts us, and you probably never will.

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Fedi Meta | Snouts | PV 

Fuck you, you selfish petty bastards. Give us back our spaces and our friends.

Fedi Meta | Subtoot 

That's also why it affects me so much, it reminds me so much of the toxic bs I once was a part of. I see my past self in all of the guilty parties involved, and it distresses me that they would double down so much when they should have known better.

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Fedi Meta | Subtoot 

In a way, the reason I am so cavalier about calling him out is because he reminds me so much of myself back when I used to be a Gamergate shithead, doing the same beating my hispanic identity into people's faces thing as a pretext to being aggressively toxic.

This is why the Gamergate comparison is apt, and I stand by it. The question now is, what will it take for him to grow out of it?

What makes The Dispossessed a great and enduring work is its honesty about the things that can go wrong in a society constituted under anarchist ideals, including the creeping nature of enforced mediocrity to assert itself even in a society without sanctioned state violence. A revolution is never complete and you can't rest on calling yourself a leftist or anarchist; revolution must forever be renewed in one's self, in one's community and society.

Grandma, if God didn't want me to be gay then how come it made enbies so hot?

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