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Gender double standards and toxic masculinity 

Jamie Spann lists 19 #gender double standards demonstrating the destructive impact of toxic masculinity on society buzzfeed.com/jamiespain/gender

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snouts, dragon 

remember the dragon i designed for one of those rotating mascots back on snouts?

they're good and should still be appreciated too.

i should just make her an unaffiliated oc tbh

Re:Fedi Meta 

You can put two and two together and figure out that it's shitty people stealing the voices of black folk for their own benefit.

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Re:Fedi Meta 

So basically, it's gaslighting. It's circling the wagons, and it's gaslighting. I've seen this happen a lot in my time with AltFurry, and I am seeing it here in response to being called out for anti black attitudes, for driving away a black owned and run instance, and in response to being held to task for enabling/participating in the chasing down of ex-snouts users to harass them.

These are the same folks involved in an instance project that extolled the virtues of inclusion.

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Fedi Meta 

As a victim of cult brainwashing, the practice of instance admins going on rants about how good they are is an extremely visible red flag to us.

They are using the voices of those who don't know any better to craft a pathology, to create a mass narrative that makes their victims question if what they experienced was real.

UK, police racism, Cardiff, death, covid-19 

Gosh! Such swift action by the police. To ensure protest against his killing is stifled, not to ensure those responsible are dealt with, or the underlying systemic issues.

"Police in Wales have fined a woman £500 for organising protests over the death of a young black man hours after he was released from police custody.

The family of Mohamud Hassan allege that he was beaten by South Wales police and had a number of serious injuries at the time of his death. The police have referred the case to the Independent Office for Police Conduct.

Protests took place outside Cardiff Bay police station for three days after Hassan’s death."

theguardian.com/world/live/202

when people in your life tell you they would prefer you use a different pronoun for them;
instead of complaining, protesting, and making excuses for why it's too hard for you to do, why not try being like these kids?

When thinking about the "dumbest day in american history" you shouldn't only be concerned about the trump crowd. You should also be alarmed about, how the democratic party is planning on using the riot to pass legislation, that will most likely be targeted against people justifiably demanding actual change, such as BLM protesters and climate activists.

A detailed analysis on this whole mess can be seen in this video: youtube.com/watch?v=FoP9ufM3bj

uspol, neoliberal excuses for fascism 

I keep coming back to that line of Biden’s first speech about the teapot insurrection, “This is not America.” And no. Just no.

It isn’t the whole of America. We’ve seen that, over this past summer. But violent white supremacy is absolutely a part of America. And the first step to dealing with a problem is *acknowledging that you have a problem.*

I can’t headdesk enough to describe my feelings about this administration, and its term hasn’t even started yet.

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So, waking up and talking about issues, hanging out with my daughter while she plays RDR2 Online. This has been my morning. HBU?

re: Fedi Meta | Subtoot 

And if you have to go out of your way to talk about how good of a person you are, chances are that you aren't.

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re: Fedi Meta | Subtoot 

In any case, the main point is, I don't care what ethnicity you are, toxicity is toxicity, and if your toxicity matches the abuse patterns of white settler colonialism, I will call it as such.

Whiteness isn't a skin colour, it's how your world view is formed around it, and associated settler colonialist attitudes that spawned from it. Nobody is immune to being white, I am a Fillipina/Hispanic Nonbinary Plural Fae Therian/Otherkin, and 3 years ago, I was white af because of the toxic colonialist-centric beliefs I used to hold.

It really isn't that hard of a concept to grasp.

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Memories of Fascist Grooming 

Yeah, this is bringing back pretty unpleasant memories of being yelled at for trying to explain why certain things are wrong to conservatives, only for them to tell me to just sling the r-slur at them.

Sorry, but no, not sorry. I will not turn my discourse into a clash of ego-driven epithets just for your comfort, pleasure or entertainment.

Fedi Meta | Subtoot 

It's not white-washing to tell you that your race does not shield you from your toxicity, that's what I meant by the Gamergate comparison, because this does invoke memories of NotYourShield, a mass-tokenzing project to whitewash its own image from accusations of misogyny and various toxicity.

Much like how you're using the ethnicity of the serial harasser you're defending, as a shield to whitewash his actions, and your historical enablement of anti-black sentiments towards folks like PlayVicious members.

You can spin tales of your own virtue all you want, that will not make the receipts and records of your own toxic behaviour go away.

PS: Your disdain for Masto essays is an anti-intellectual red flag. You may want to read a certain Umberto Eco book on why this is wrong.

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