@StormyDragon @Leucrotta (oh yeah and though this didn’t surface today, gender also connects to sex, which is another convoluted heap of issues for me. NOT easy topics.)
@StormyDragon @Leucrotta So gender, body image, self worth and safety, theoretically only tangentially connected, wind up as a complex tangle. Add in practical considerations (I have to play boy for my parents and employers, so THAT’S a resented externally imposed identity even if I’m 100% male; how could I afford HRT, when could I try out women’s clothes or pronouns, etc) and “I wish I could look pretty in a skirt like that” quickly becomes overwhelming, if that makes sense? ✂️
@StormyDragon @Leucrotta sorta typical; I wish I were a pretty girl (fine on its own) but that gets into how it’s specious for me to link gender to appearance.
I’ve been so completely trained I’m ugly I could look like Tilda Swinton or Tori Amos and never see myself as pretty; making myself pretty or accepting I can have prettiness while being ugly in other respects, gets into questioning worthiness (and, whether others will see me as “deserving” prettiness, womanhood or both). 🧵
@amaranth@weirder.earth @Leucrotta Forest of Spirits, the next to last Jade Regent adventure. I was in a group that went through some of the adventure path but didn’t get that far. It’s… weird.
reading an old Pathfinder while on the pot, and it's so linear that I truly appreciate the late, great Jennell Jacquays for coming up with the concept of NON linear dungeons. But there are non-linear concepts all over the place here, so possibly they intended an obvious version OR lots of GM improvisation?
whoa these dudes are Ket
I've heard Ket is kinda SORTA distantly related to dene bizaad
also; very confused doggos
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