Rosemary @Rosemary@awoo.space

@monorail @daylight That's the point at which you probably need a therapist; the suggestion to apologize less is to help more mild cases in general, I think.

I don't think it's deserved, by the way, for what it's worth.

@monorail @daylight Well, yours isn't tied to overapologizing at least, if that doesn't help you. Different people need different solutions.

@daylight @monorail I think you're misunderstanding what this is meant to say. Some people, us included, have difficulty with over-apologizing, and it feeds back on itself making us feel bad for doing relatively innocuous things. If instead we thank someone for putting up with us, it recontextualizes the whole thing in a way that doesn't set off ingrained self-loathing.

That could be written in a way that doesn't sound so much like an order, though.

Goodnight, all of you wonderful people. I'll see you in the morning!

@monorail Niiiiine.

@daylight I told you!

@daylight Seems it's back up now!

@daylight https://www.furaffinity.net/user/crocophile/ though we just learned that FA is down so that might have to wait until it's back

@daylight Maybe crocophile? She's not on mastodon but she's a friend of ours who does good art and lots of hyper.

@unascribed Particularly because heptominoes are when they start to have holes in them.

Good morning, everyone.

Wait, actually, there are no links anywhere in this email where you would expect there to be.... I think gmail might just be blocking all links due to it looking suspicious--and for once, I would agree with google that an email telling us we should sign up for the paypal credit card with ridiculous% APR is pretty suspicious even if it is legitimate.

I'm not sure why the screen-capture software turned the cursor to white, making it rather hard to see. It's over the first B of unsubscribe.

Is this even legal? I think this isn't actually from who it claims to be from, though it's a convincing fake if so.

I feel like we didn't get nearly enough sleep last night, so I think we're going to bed early today. Goodnight, all. 💙

@daylight oh, you look fantastic. <3

Why is it that, if a cis person gets someone's name wrong and they correct them saying they prefer to go by a nickname or their middle name or something, it's accepted without question, but if a trans person corrects someone and says what their real name is, they get told they're wrong?