The second gender is a make one that shifts in expression from clean-shaven athletic to emo to flower crown prince, depending on the day.
The last ID could be considered "fem" (not "femme" tho since that's a lesbian ID), but still make, and layered on top of my non-binary gender absolutely not "femme".
So it's just so weird that someone I hardly know would call me "extremely femme".
The way I look at it, I've got 2 gender identities that sit on top of each other.
The main ID is a soft, gentle, "purple" androgynous non-binary. It's always there, very genderqueer, but gets read as feminine because I'm afab and haven't medically transitioned.
Friend advice?
One of my good friends is going through a really hard time. I like spending time with her, but her personality is a little strong & I often find myself exhausted after hanging out.
I also find myself agreeing to spend time with her when I don't really want to, because I'm afraid of upsetting her.
I honestly don't know what to do. I think I need to simply hang out with her less, but I know she needs support. Any advice?
Thread of book threads:
Conquest of Bread: https://anticapitalist.party/@mooncake/99073635243425733
To Our Friends:
https://anticapitalist.party/@mooncake/99111450676440337
Confronting Empire: https://anticapitalist.party/@mooncake/99852968252086371
Black Bloc, White Riot: https://anticapitalist.party/@mooncake/99344401746611606
Left of the Left: https://anticapitalist.party/@mooncake/99582754243897549
Against the Fascist Creep: https://anticapitalist.party/@mooncake/99284206116946481
will add more as I finish them
if you're in NYC, please consider attending the final performance event for my NYU class on making computer-generated poetry. friday may 4th, 7:30pm-9pm at 721 Broadway in Manhattan https://gist.github.com/aparrish/292279e3d2d141b141fd3e9e9bd1b20f (also here's a fb event link if that's easier for you https://www.facebook.com/events/324251648103831/)
I'm really overwhelmed with the quality of the student work this year—if you're into poetry and/or computation you should definitely be there.
Afternoon Gratitude List
This afternoon I'm grateful for:
1. A job that let's me work with interesting kiddos & their cool families
2. Living in a beautiful beach(ish) town
3. Working near lovely hikes & trails
4. Having a car
5. Fiona Apple
Morning Gratitude List
This morning I'm grateful for:
1. The friends I have made on this website
2. Having a yummy bowl of cereal & cup of coffee for breakfast
3. Having had a nice bed to sleep in last night
4. That I have a positive relationship with my parents
5. That I have fun plans for this weekend
Hope you all have a great day!!
💙 Sparrow
Hi I'm Sparrow! Queer kid-adventurer, sci fi/horror geek, wildlife enthusiast, & Witch. Enboi, they/them. T1d. Intersectional feminist. BT/special education aide.