@egypturnash @kit ... oh damn, I forgot about the farmer's market this morning! /derail
Rant; upset; dark; trauma
@Ulfra_Wolfe@witches.town a long, long time ago, I found a way to help me deal with this concept when depression was gnawing my head:
"You don't get what you want,
you don't get what you need,
you don't get what you deserve...
you get what you get."
the corollary to that thought is that it's up to us to make what we get into what we need, and to help others do the same. <3
white nonsense
@guerrillarain@witches.town the utter hypocrisy of complaining about "those people" doing the ~exact same thing~ that they give white people a pass for.
"those people have too many kids" -> has a white cousin with 7 kids
"those people take all our money on welfare" -> majority of welfare recipients are white
"those people are always doing crimes on each other" -> white on white crime is rampant and ignored
over and fucking over and over, every god damn thing.
@Oneironott @Jssra we'll be thinking of you and keeping a virtual ear and eye open as well, hon.
say what you will about the victorian era of Britain and its sickening colonialst excesses, dudes knew how to make party games https://pbs.twimg.com/media/DCxDBv4XgAAAsQD.jpg
@Oneironott fwiw I had to go to an urgent care place recently (spider bite yaye!) and it was, if anything, easier, faster, and smoother than any doctor's visit I've ever had.
it's totally ok if you decide not to go of course, and @Jssra 's advice is spot on. if you can't have somebody be physically present, try to stay online with us for a while, yes?
we care about you, hon. *gentle hugpets and soothing headthoughts sent*
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pronouns: they/them
location: Seattle
phenotype: dracosaur
alignment: chaotic well-intentioned
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aka Sprackraptor, Rasha, elynne, Yahvahzensil, & etc.
40-something ace/aro
an identity under construction in a badly-fitting human suit.
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