green except too damn hot @green@awoo.space

WOOOOO hi hi hi

ok sleep time now gnight awrawrrr <3

alts yelling at each other through in-game mail is kinda awesome. XD

@noelle fffffhahaaahahahahahah omg YES.

@Leucrotta there's actually a lot of stuff about it (well, some) online, which we cribbed from heavily, but it seems like it'd be easily adaptable into any gaming system, and makes a really fun, *interesting* replacement for alignment systems. XD

@Leucrotta Spouse has been running a 5th Edition game set in Ravnika, the M:tG city-plane, and instead of alignments we use color affinities--which don't have "good" or "evil" connotations, but reflect a character's beliefs and personality. it gives a very interesting spin on the concept of "alignments," and lets the GM play with some fun different mechanics!

@Leucrotta "and then, Coyote happened" explains *so many things*

@guerrillarain@witches.town also I think you read them already but "The Fifth Season" has a trans character, though the author isn't trans afaik.

@bugeoisie@cybre.space @guerrillarain@witches.town trans characters with trans creator, *beautiful* artwork, *fantastic* story, there's a lot of it already and still a lot more to come, I honestly cannot praise it enough: White Noise http://www.white-noise-comic.com/ by @thephooka

@Leucrotta RPO Speedwagon

@mawr also I need to come visit at some point! XD

@mawr @KitRedgrave@glitch.social blargh, sorry that aspect of that particular neighborhood hasn't changed since we lived up there... >___<

if people express anger about TDOV, it's probably anger that this world/society makes it unsafe for people to be the gender they feel. it's definitely what makes me angry! it's *not* anger at you for not feeling safe to speak up. I am angry at the boot that is crushing you, not at you for being crushed. it's okay. you don't have to be visible to us to be valid. you don't have to be 100% anything to be valid. <3

basically, if you're wondering if you qualify, YOU PROBABLY DO. if you didn't, you wouldn't *wonder*! if the idea of anybody being *certain* that the gender they were assigned at birth was the *correct* one kind of boggles your brain, you qualify! if you haven't told anybody but a few of your closest friends (or nobody at all) and you still don't feel safe/comfortable telling, you don't have to! it's still your day!

part of the problem is that there are BOTH degrees of transness AND degrees of closetedness, and so it can be difficult for one to feel that one is "far enough" along either of those sliders to "qualify." these are further complicated by matters of safety, needing-to-make-a-living-ness, and jumping through the many burning hoops of Medical Gatekeeping.