@infogab also consider not playing devils advocate. Devils can advocate for themselves
social skills for ppl who like to debate things:
1. Ensure the ppl yr debating actually care to discuss this with you, and actively ensure they still want to be engaging with you.
2. Actively communicate non-hostility and friendliness. Use phrases like "good point" "correct me if i'm wrong" "i don't understand" and "what do you think?"
3. Outright avoid joining discussions fundamentally about other people's lives and not yours. You will never be welcome in them.
@asonix@mstdn.dank.software ok! You should toss up a quick request for me over at https://docs.google.com/forms/d/1R8j3NHNV7wof4KrG0s_f0RiCRn6cPz_2ROQmvcICFco/edit?usp=drive_web&edit_requested :)
@green @thefishcrow @mawr @starkatt Y'ALL I FELT A RAIN DROP
IS IT TODAY???
@vahnj and a charizard is a dragonwrought kobold with a flaming tail.
@Leucrotta eeeeeeeee look at their stubby stompers
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