Krissy @BigFatFae@awoo.space

@literorrery I'm really glad!!! Thank you for the comment <3

@Thaminga *Huuuuuuuugs*

@Kyna *Hugs softly* I appreciate it, hon

Like... All of these things lead me into darker places. Lead me into places that I know a lot of people can't follow. It leaves me feeling alienated, like I don't belong anywhere. I am thankful that I've found people willing to help me. Because it's incredibly difficult to do it on my own...

To remember that I'm not bad. Even if I'm not for everyone, I'm good for some people.

I'm fat. 400 pounds. A lot of internalizing good thoughts about this is my kink exploring the extremes of being fat. Ageplay is another thing on this list. I like being a little girl. But I struggle with feeling like I'm bad for this. I further deal with this by fetishizing validation via having my interests projected onto a dom-figure, removing agency and therefore possibility of greed, which pushes me into non-con RP fantasies.

Speaking of real talk: I get very very self conscious about the things I'm into basically constantly. While I primarily mean kink stuff, it's actually everything. I live in a near constant state of worrying the things I'm into are actually just bad, that I'm just bad.

Ah yes, lets sandwich REALTALK between minor kink RP. YAH. Care warnings are useful. ^^;

@Ulfra_Wolfe@witches.town @mona B-but! Aren't girls my a-age supposed to be a lot smaller?

@Ulfra_Wolfe@witches.town The trick is that everyone is vulnerable to feeling like they're faking it. We question ourselves constantly, and there's no such thing as objectivity. Our senses exist within our mind's eye. We are vulnerable to being tricked that things aren't or are real. Ultimately... I think that as long as your feelings aren't harmful, they are valid and real enough.

@Ulfra_Wolfe@witches.town I can validate that! :3

@Ulfra_Wolfe@witches.town @mona D-did I mention Nyaaaa? C-cause Nyaaaa! I already had plenty of sweets!

@Ulfra_Wolfe@witches.town @mona Nyaaaa!

@mona I'd bow back, but I'm a bit big for that. Hi!

I likes to talk about: Social justice and accessibility, fantasies of vulnerability, tarot/fae stuff, and sometimes other things! I am welcome to anyone wanting to follow me who isn't made uncomfortable by the fact that I'll sometimes post dark kink stuff (behind CW!)

Hi, my name is Krissy, and I'm a fat, gay dragon-bunny (drabunny)

@nventous I wish I could favorite this more than once <3

@Firstaide Thank you! I have very strong feelings about all of this, and I'm always happy for the validation <3

@green Seriously, I would love it to death. It would drastically help for expression of kink-stuff, too, because you could still have a 'public posts must be CW' in your CoC, but local posts could be as expressive as you wanted. Good for people who struggle with feeling valid in their expressions! It'd let more nuanced communities form, centered around different protections

This kinda got away from me, and I'm not sure I have a point so much as that I want to just put my feelings and thoughts to words. I'm just one weird person in this world, but I've found other weird people that make this life worth something to me. Make me feel not alone. And I want everyone to have that, I want us all to find that community we belong in.

It reminds me how much I would appreciate a 'public on this instance' privacy type for posts. But that's a bit of a tangent. Point is, I am happy with the directions we're moving, towards both ease of accessibility AND smaller scale moderation mingling with larger scale projects. I want to see places like this thrive, and see the communities that spawn bevcause of it. We all have different needs, I hope that we can all meet them.