rylees! -> vulpine.club @tastymochafox@awoo.space
Moved back to vulpine.club. Please go re-follow me there! :)
Joined Jan 2018
rylees! -> vulpine.club
boosted
There was a tumblr post I saw that was talking about "I wish I could go on dates with people but without the romantic involvement" and people were like "That's just friendship" and other people were like "No it's this other really complicated thing with a new name" and, like, honestly?
Normalize the FUCK out of highly-emotional, loving friendships. We shouldn't need a new word for that. That's just being friends.
rylees! -> vulpine.club
boosted
🎶 We're up all night to get ✨plushy✨ 🎶
Gooooooooood morning!
rylees! -> vulpine.club
boosted
Design Thinking about sexuality in communities
Re the current discussions about making friends in communities where open sexuality is common, I'm thinking about how we can do better with tools and values about communication.
So, I have a question for folks, especially those who feel they're not well-served in these communities currently:
What do YOU, personally, want others to know about your needs, regarding sexuality or lack thereof?
(Answers in DMs okay!)
Design Thinking about sexuality in communities
@indi
is boosting OK?
queer community + sex
I've seen this around a few places and I figure it's worth being explicit about:
You **do not** need to have sex with me or do kinky things with me or cuddle with me to be my friend. I promise, I won't think of you as less good because you say "no".
I do want to be clear though, I _am_ a sexual being and I _am_ a very kinky person, and both of those are big parts of me, and I don't think they can be fundamentally fully separated from my identity. Everything intersects.
rawr
hello depression
let's make some things glow to clear up this sadness
@rey that's honestly more confusing than anything how did they derive male from that
selfie
good morning it's selfie time
@LottieVixen@dev.glitch.social @rey we have great people! the best people i've ever worked with have been here.. <3
@LottieVixen@dev.glitch.social whoops i'm bad at copy/paste anyways here's this! https://landing.google.com/sre/
@LottieVixen@dev.glitch.social you might find https://landing.google.com/sre/interesting!!!
@LottieVixen@dev.glitch.social site reliability engineer!
Since I haven't actually done this yet for this account: #introductions time!
Hi! I'm Rylee! I'm a:
- #nonbinary girl (I use she/her and they/them; either is acceptable!)
- #SRE by day -- making systems scalable without needing to scale your ops team with it
- #NYC resident!
- #furry + #otherkin! what species i actually am varies, but typically some kind of canid (fox/wolf) as of now ... but who knows? maybe i'll be an otter in the future.
- #postfurry! glowy and soft and fully synthetic.
i'm a good girl! yay!
goodnight world!!
Moved back to vulpine.club. Please go re-follow me there! :)
Joined Jan 2018
