@noiob (and yeah, the timing for this is pretty great, hee)
@noiob that's the thing though! it didn't stand out for me either, and after i started noticing it, it seemed like nobody else did
i think it started to really sink in for me when i heard justin mcelroy say it for probably the thirtieth time in The Besties, and then noticed it wasn't just a justin thing when it was also in a fake magazine cover by action button
and then, i just kinda started noticing it everywhere, like i'd just stepped into a time vortex of this previously invisible in-joke
it has some real "come and get it" energy in how i see the phrase used in ironic contexts all the time, but it's also impossible to pinpoint any examples of it because of its sheer popularity outside of them
except, in this case, the only people who use the phrase ironically seem to almost exclusively be the people it's parodying
it's like a little self-aware joke where the only people who realize it exists are the ones telling it
is there anything else like that?
@cinnamon practically speaking, that means that even when i have the chance to interact with my kinks, i'll gladly do that--but i won't really know what to do beyond that
it also means that, because i interact with a lot of these things on a more passive level, i don't feel particularly strong urges to do things...and instead usually just end up thinking about my obsession du jour instead
but i'm also convinced that would change drastically if someone managed to conjure up the right aesthetics
@cinnamon that basically leaves me with a really confusing situation of knowing my aesthetic, but not actually being able to grasp it tangibly
so, there are things that push my buttons, but those things are hard to imagine before they happen (or i think reaaally hard about things that "might" be related)
@cinnamon it's also fun because of how much my mind fixates on the idea of cute ideas, and wanting to be cute
i think that's actually where any sort of libido i do have comes from too. and because i don't find outright sex cute, paradoxically, my libido basically self-destructs if i start thinking about it
@cinnamon oh! sure!
basically, i identify as demi because while i don't really have an interest in sex itself, there are definitely things that i like very much that can kinda offset that
some of those things are kinks, but most of them are aesthetics
as a result, 99% of the time, i just kinda like passively being in kink aesthetic without actually interacting with it on any sexual level, but that changes when i imagine myself in a few mostly-nonsexual situations
@cinnamon gosh, ain't that a mood
Today is the first #InternationalAsexualityDay and our mascot want's to spread the word and support all asexual people! ![]()
one thing i've always kinda appreciated about april fool's is how it's sometimes used to try things you usually can't!
plausible deniability can be used as one heck of a veil to momentarily break out of the expectations others have for you
a way where you can just say "what if?", and play that reality out for a day
@cinnamon ooh! that sounds amazing
it always rules when you can just like...hang for as long as you are comfy and play things~
@cinnamon pretty good!
i have a bunch of cool things that i can do today, and i'm fatally distracted from anything else, hahah
@cinnamon ohayou goodogmasu~
oh hi! i do computers, and sometimes draw stuff~ i like lo-fi things and cute aesthetics!
i also probably like you
(also, tagged #abdl ahead, soooo 🔞)