@Thaminga *nods lazily*
@wobblewuffess def poke bowl mm
@Krall I'm sorry that will likely mean you want to leave and I'm sorry for my missteps along the way but they ran me ragged and continuously dragged me the whole time when all I did was urge them to practice self care for stuff that was obviously distressing.
@Krall This ultimately was Stressful enough for me throughout that I was triggered three times because of their continual attempts to argue over what's reasonable or not while also micromanaging how I resolved the situation they brought up.
I can't accommodate that kind of argumentative approach to dealing with my moderation. I have only so much time an be spoons and we wrote a light novel together trying to accommodate them. I can't commit myself to them any more
@Krall I got tired of having to continually explain myself to them and getting my words twisted with no actual trust involved in handling a situation that went on for two weeks. Instead of any amount of self care they continually watched the person they had a problem with, lied to me about it in order to not look bad, and joked that my taking my admin duties seriously and thoroughly were obsessive after i used the same language to describe an unhealthy habit watching the person.
lament, drugs, lewd
tired of people thinking i'm some kind of robot.
im gonna log off and take some anti-anxiety pills and maybe fuck the boy or something.
i rarely feel comfortable here any more bc of how much visibility i have i don't need people taking what im doing here like some kind of public service
@noelle it used to! a long while ago. i wish it still did
@noelle if that's wrong i'd love to be corrected but the last time i tested this, it held true
@noelle suspension actually doesn't stop the federation of toots. it just prevents people from following remote instances and deletes all their content off the servers.
reddit link to instructions on fighting net neutrality
if you can muster a phone call, here you go:
@lizardsquid heyo o/
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I'm an admin! Please don't add me in follow Friday threads.
call me James, Crom, or vahn
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An introvert with social anxiety, and depression.