uspol, abusers
The other thing is; they pulled this horror during Pride Month. Divide and conquer (don’t think about X, you must worry about Y), keep your victim exhausted, don’t give them anything that feels like accomplishment, try to control all access to information. Whether it’s children behind chain link partitions, conversion therapy or what they’re doing to us now, it’s a consistently abusive attitude.
the discourse
A stressed animal will run, fight, or go to ground; helplessness overlaps conserving energy.
We, right now, have very limited means to “fight” and fewer to “run.” I don’t want to condemn myself for not fighting, not fighting enough, I don’t like feeling censured and I don’t have the heart to condemn others for “going to ground.”
If you gotta withdraw, DO IT, there’s enough going on your voice will be crucial whenever you feel like you can cope again.
current masto discourse re: self-care, pol, & CWs
and like all rights, it is a right *and* a responsibility. the CW tag is giving you a gift of choice. making a choice you know is going to make you unhappy and then complaining that you were given a choice at all is the height of irresponsibility.
current masto discourse re: self-care, pol, & CWs
okay, I'm declaring a moratorium on my reposting of stuff I agree with.
I am myself a person who right now does not have the spoons to deal with the current horrors. it may be weak or selfish, but I just lost a beloved pet last week, then went through a life-threatening illness with another. and even if those things weren't true, I might not be able to deal anyway. but that's my right. and it's also my right to not click CWs that might upset me.
US political action (ICE) (Portland, OR), support needed
-> https://organizing.social/@slackz/100232661061069398
(CWed boost)
RE: CW, distinctions of use, politics of marginalization and personal choices to modulate voice.
Silence = Death
Insisting that the voice of the oppressed protest off the thoroughfare is fundamentally not a right we should be reserving. Though the choice to moderate your own voice is one that can be taken for a variety of practical reasons, or for consideration.
We should never normalize systemic social pressures for silence.
@LexYeen @Leucrotta oh wow... yeah, I like this idea!
Us pol / escapism / action
It is okay to escape from the news right now.
It's okay to feel hopeless.
Hide if you need to.
Then try and come back and help with some kind of action, even if it's just copy pasting an email to your representative/s.
Help locally.
Help one other person find resources.
Do something to make someone's day, week or year a little better.
Do something to make your community a little bit better.
💞💞💞 I'm hurting so much right now, but I'll come back 💞💞💞
Uspol, ICE protest, help needed
Heads up that there is currently no #Seattle event for June 30 shown on https://www.familiesbelongtogether.org. Does anyone around here with #organizing experience want to start one?
@Leucrotta and reading the descriptions--yeah, it was "Tribal Warfare" that I read! oh sweet, I will definitely put this on my "gotta get this when I have money" list! :D
@Leucrotta oh! now that I see it I remember that I saw one issue of it a long time ago and was like "WHAT IS THIS TELL ME THERE IS MORE OF IT" but couldn't get more information for whatever reason. thank you so much! :D
@KawaSeadrake on Sunday there were at least three ospreys flying low in the area around my apartment complex, making their high-pitched chirps. one circled so low over the Costco parking lot I could see its eyes! and then three crows took off after it. XD
@Leucrotta oooh, I have not! is it in book form, or online, or what?
kitten mishap (minor, he's fine)
Raziel was chasing a toy yesterday and ran into a wall full-speed, then sat down and did the "whoah dizzy!" thing for a few moments. I didn't realize a kitten his size could run into a wall fast enough to give himself a concussion, but--lesson learned! so now I'm careful to keep from running him into a wall with toys. >____<
mh (-)
@Momentrabbit so, so much empathy and *gentlehugthoughts* offered.
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