Update on hosting situation (+) CW: Nazis, Harassment (-)
Thanks everyone-- I've gotten in contact with Kat at Girldick.hosting. They've been really hit hard by Nazis and it's still ongoing. They apparently sent out an email but the message was blocked by gmail's servers, so many of us never received it. That message would have explained the lack of communication that followed.
What a dystopian nightmare all this has turned into. Augh.
sads
@starkatt Disagree
It's okay to be sad, its okay to tell your friends that you're sad
It's also okay to tell your friends en masse that you're trying not to rely on the positive feedback that comes from the attention that follows telling your friends that you're sad.
Your feelings are valid and your desires are valid. The path away from codependency is hard, and your attentiveness to it is h*ckin' awesome and should be recognized.
You are okay. ♥️
@qualia Hello fren :3
@starkatt *rereads*
A tautology: Recursion is the key to recursion.
@starkatt So many things I've wanted to say and thought better of.
So many connections I haven't made. So many needs I haven't expressed.
And at the same time, so many things I've thought better than to say.
@makyo YAY :D
Venting
I am so tired and frustrated and angry
So much miscommunication today, and not just from girldick -- from work and lenders, too
Fun fact: When someone gives you a gift to buy a house, they have to write a letter saying they gave the money to you as a gift, and that letter has to reference individual wire transfers separately or it's not good enough™
The letter my mom just mailed in will probably not work, and the envelope they provided to send it back will take 3 days to arrive
ace, identity
@leafnoodle Isn't that kind of invalidating to the majority of us who use the title somewhat flexibly? Every definition of asexual I've seen leaves room for some sexual interest.
I get that it's hard to explain to those not in the know, but by using a percentage like that to specify your level of interest, it reinforces the incorrect (and sometimes harmful!) social perception that those who identify as asexual are never interested in sex.
@leafnoodle I've never met anyone who describes their asexuality with a percentage-- most seem to use asexual paired with demisexual or other more descriptive terms that better reflect the pre-requisite conditions of any potential sexual interest.
I do know a few folks who identify in variations of "somewhat asexual," though. After all, asexual doesn't always mean "Never has sex" or "is never interested in/willing to have sex," though that is frequently assumed to be the case.
thirst-talky
@vahnj I know, right? I like my cuties to be friend-shaped
Memes
@literorrery I'm sorry to hear that. Such ailments can be fixed with the application of mango smoothies and more pot.
Bad joke about PNW families and Drugs 🍃
👧: Mom I'm gonna dump out this bowl and toke a fresh one.
🙍: But there's still a good hit in there!
👧: Mom it's mostly ash it's oka-
🙍: You will finish that bowl before you refill it young lady!!
👧: Mommmmm...
🙍: When I was your age, we had t-
👧: Please not this again..
🙍: WE HAD TO SMOKE RESIN, REBECCA. RESIN! Now you'll smoke your dregs and like it!!
👧: Yes mom..
Shit what Adept Says
@literorrery @zebratron2084 @Oneironott Mankato Something.
Drugs 🍃
@ElectricKeet @literorrery Practice makes Percolated!
Dragony plush thing! Friendly, non-binary, anarcho-syndicalist, ace.
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